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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17637">TaylasMum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2007 at 9:18am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Oh Laurie - that totally sucks...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18052">emachan</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2007 at 10:00pm<br /><br />Oh Laurie - that totally sucks that they kept you waiting (and unable to eat) all day! I know how bad it was for me waiting from 8am til 2:30 when I finally got called in to start getting ready for the D&C then I remember how hungry I was after I came out of recovery.<br /><br />I hope that tomorrow goes well and the bleeding doesn't get too bad before MOnday - I started bleeding lightly on the Monday and didn't have D&C til the Friday.<br /><br />Big cyber hugs to you chick, I'm thinking of you!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley27.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=2583">busymum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2007 at 7:39pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> All the best for tomorrow.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17893">KiwiL</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 02 November 2007 at 1:18pm<br /><br />Hey guys,<br />Thanks again for all the words of support.<br />I went to hospital yesterday to have a D&C. Got there at 8am in the morning (having not eaten since dinner the night before) and waited there the whole darn day. They eventually sent me home at 8:30pm, having not had the procedure as too many more urgent cases came in. I was so starving and grumpy by the time I went home. Now there's  a day of my life I will never get back again! It was so boring.....<br />Still scared of miscarrying tomorrow, but the bleeding is still really light so I am hoping it will hold off a bit longer. <br />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : hugs laurie thinking of you xoxx...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18031">tropics</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 01 November 2007 at 10:04am<br /><br />hugs laurie thinking of you xoxx]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Thanks everyone for all the hugs!  Emma,...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17893">KiwiL</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 31 October 2007 at 10:53am<br /><br />Thanks everyone for all the hugs!<br /><br />Emma, I tried to arrange a D&C but the earliest they could do it would be Monday next week, which doesn't really help me at all.<br /><br />Guess I will just have to hope for the best! It's still really light, and brown spotting and hasn't become any heavier. Time will tell. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=887">kezplanet</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 10:49pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Oh Laurie, I have no words to...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17772">minik8e</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 8:58pm<br /><br />Oh Laurie, I have no words to say what I want.  Huge <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> to you, take time just for you, look after yourself.  It's such a horrible feeling (understatement).]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10440">katie1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 8:09pm<br /><br />Big hugs.  It isn't nice.  Be extra kind to yourself this week - lots of glossy magazines, time lying on the couch and chocolate!  Sending you a HUGE hug.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Hugs Laurie! Would you consider...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=207">Maya</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 6:42pm<br /><br />Hugs Laurie! Would you consider having a d and c? Emotionally it might help you heal, it kind of makes it a more finite process, and it would help relieve some of your anxiety about Saturday.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10366">susieq</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 6:04pm<br /><br />Big hugs Laurie]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Very sorry Laurie,    from me...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10411">caraMel</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 2:07pm<br /><br />Very sorry Laurie, <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> from me too. <br />I hope that things aren't too rough on Saturday.<br />Thinking of you xx]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10278">james</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 2:03pm<br /><br />awww hunn sending big hugs for you in this hard time<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 1:29pm<br /><br />I don't know what to say so will just send you a cyber <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 13:29:43 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=16140">Anna</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 12:52pm<br /><br />Laurie you poor thing.  Such a sad time, my only advice is too look after yourself extra well over in the times to come.  <br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18156">Bumble</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 12:45pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Scared : Well, I had my scan last week...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17893">KiwiL</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 11895<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 30 October 2007 at 12:29pm<br /><br />Well, I had my scan last week and it showed a blighted ovum (as you all probably know). I finally started bleeding today and I am really scared. <br /><br />I remember what this week was like last time and I just really don't want to go through it again. The not knowing when I'll pass the clots is awful, and I have a funeral to go to on Saturday which is going to be really special and hard for me.... I'm worried that the worst might happen then. Last time, from the day I started bleeding, it took 5 days till I passed the clots, and Saturday is 5 days from today. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />It's been 62 days since my last period started, so today would have been the day AF was due had I not got pregnant, so I am really just trying to tell myself it's just AF, it's just AF.... but I know what it's going to be like.<br /><br />I'm feeling really down about this, and about losing my friend. I kind of feel like I am in a big black hole at the moment. Sucks. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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