OHbaby! Forums : Coping, not coping, hmmm.... https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 20:21:32 +0000 Fri, 04 Jan 2008 09:59:15 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=13180 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Glad the scan went well Emma....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270530&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270530 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 13180
Posted: 04 January 2008 at 9:59am

Glad the scan went well Emma. Heres to the rest of your pregnancy going smoothly and no worries... Hows the MS?]]> Fri, 04 Jan 2008 09:59:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270530&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270530 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : So glad to hear the scan went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270508&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270508 Author: caraMel
Subject: 13180
Posted: 04 January 2008 at 9:04am

So glad to hear the scan went well Emma!
Bugger about the spotting tho! This little bub is going to turn you grey before s/he even meets you huh?
Thank goodness for the doppler to reassure you.
Take care chick xx]]> Fri, 04 Jan 2008 09:04:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270508&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270508 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Big hugs Emma, hope the 1st passed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270424&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270424 Author: Maya
Subject: 13180
Posted: 03 January 2008 at 9:37pm

Big hugs Emma, hope the 1st passed quickly for you!

I survived, but only just! I have been going mad! Baby is happy in there tho, had my 12 week scan today and all is good. Am spotting again tho UGH! Not good for my sanity! Still, at least I can keep track of bub with the doppler.

Thanks for all your thoughts ladies!]]> Thu, 03 Jan 2008 21:37:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=270424&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#270424 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Im feeling a bit sad as Feb gets...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269360&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269360 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 13180
Posted: 01 January 2008 at 10:05am

Im feeling a bit sad as Feb gets closer, our baby would have been due on the 20th Feb. But then I feel this little one kick me and know that the baby we lost is watching over us and this little baby has a guardian angel in its little brother or sister that we lost

Big Hugs hun **hugs**]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2008 10:05:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269360&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269360 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Hey Emma, I am in the kind of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269048&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269048 Author: emmaohara
Subject: 13180
Posted: 31 December 2007 at 12:13pm

Hey Emma, I am in the kind of same boat right now ( if not floating on similar seas...!), bubba would have been due January 1st and for some reason I keep stressing that this bubba is going to be born then which is madness but I can not get it out of my head at all as it would be too early for bubs and well its not really going to happen

I guess our heads try to deal with things for us and mine is dealing with the uncoming date by freaking out about this baby, wish it would stop its all I can think about so I know its a stressfull time for you, hang in there and enjoy your scan ( so jealous ,wish I could have another one!! i'm well addicted to them!) ]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:13:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269048&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269048 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Thinking of you ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269031&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269031 Author: Bumble
Subject: 13180
Posted: 31 December 2007 at 11:42am

Thinking of you ]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2007 11:42:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=269031&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#269031 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : I&#039;m hanging in here. Less...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268877&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268877 Author: Maya
Subject: 13180
Posted: 30 December 2007 at 11:54pm

I'm hanging in here. Less thank 12 hours to go Just listened to bub on the doppler which was reassuring, but feeling a bit anxious. If I wasn't pregnant I'd probably take a sedative! Trying to focus on just getting thru till the morning, then getting thru tomorrow, then have my NT scan on Thurs.
Thanks for thinking of me!]]> Sun, 30 Dec 2007 23:54:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268877&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268877 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : How&#039;s it going Emma? hope...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268402&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268402 Author: lizzle
Subject: 13180
Posted: 29 December 2007 at 10:15pm

How's it going Emma? hope you are feeling a bit calmer - knowing you, probbaly not, so hoping the gremlins are taking your mind off things a wee bit. ]]> Sat, 29 Dec 2007 22:15:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268402&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268402 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : HUGS Maya I know how you feel...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268394&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268394 Author: tropics
Subject: 13180
Posted: 29 December 2007 at 9:54pm

HUGS Maya I know how you feel Im feeling aprehensive too and Charly its the same place and same radiographer for me too since I live in a small town, my bubs now is due 30th July and mc bubs was due 30th Jan so its kinda freaky that its 6 months exactly apart so strange that dates co-inside

big big hugs xoxooxoxoxoxxo]]> Sat, 29 Dec 2007 21:54:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=268394&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#268394 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : You&#039;re not mad at all. I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267559&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267559 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 13180
Posted: 28 December 2007 at 8:21am

You're not mad at all.
I don't know how you cope with so much going on! You're a trooper!!

I had to drive past the radiology place where I found out I'd miscarried every day for 2 and a half years before getting pregnant again. Living in Tauranga it's really the only place to have u/s's done, so I went back there (VERY nervously) to have my 12 week scan with this one and I was on the verge of throwing up every time I opened my mouth. Even DH was beside himself with nerves. We were lead into the SAME room with the SAME radiographer and I had told myself that was it.
But of course, it was all fine. And you will be too! Iggle Piggle's already a fighter and has three beautiful big sisters ready to play


]]> Fri, 28 Dec 2007 08:21:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267559&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267559 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : ive just had the anniversary of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267225&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267225 Author: my2angels
Subject: 13180
Posted: 27 December 2007 at 7:42am

ive just had the anniversary of when i lost the twins aswell. Funny but the same day I was cleaning out some drawers and found all the paperwork from the hospital, was horrible. Will be thinking of you this new years and hope you can have a little fun. ]]> Thu, 27 Dec 2007 07:42:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267225&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267225 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Heck Emma, as if you don&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267215&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267215 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 13180
Posted: 26 December 2007 at 11:38pm

Heck Emma, as if you don't have enough going on for you, I hope things get eaiser for you and you soon have more wonderful memories to hold onto.

((((((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))))

]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2007 23:38:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=267215&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#267215 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266995&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266995 Author: Kels
Subject: 13180
Posted: 26 December 2007 at 10:18am

]]> Wed, 26 Dec 2007 10:18:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266995&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266995 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : I know how you feel...i was so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266924&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266924 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 13180
Posted: 25 December 2007 at 5:41pm

I know how you feel...i was so sad i went to a totally different place cause I was scare I would jinx it..lol.. go along and see your little one and make some wonderful new memories with that beautiful baby! ]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2007 17:41:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266924&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266924 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Big big hugs! Hope everything...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266912&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266912 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 13180
Posted: 25 December 2007 at 9:50am

Big big hugs! Hope everything goes well and you manage to keep your mind off it - it gets difficult in the quiet hours of the night
Best of luck for the scan! And Merry Christmas! ]]> Tue, 25 Dec 2007 09:50:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266912&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266912 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266876&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266876 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 9:21pm

]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 21:21:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266876&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266876 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Aww hun you have every right to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266868&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266868 Author: Smartmum
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 9:06pm

Aww hun you have every right to feel the way you do, it is a bit Deja Vu isnt it ;-(
Like one of the others said though, try and find new memories, never know maybe new years will be the day your iggle piggle gives you a kick you can feel!!

Big hugs.]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 21:06:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266868&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266868 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : BIG BIG HUGS EMMA ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266862&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266862 Author: james
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 8:53pm

BIG BIG HUGS EMMA ]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 20:53:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266862&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266862 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Big huge hugs from me too Emma!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266837&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266837 Author: caraMel
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 5:55pm

Big huge hugs from me too Emma!]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 17:55:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266837&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266837 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : I have no advice to offer but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266833&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266833 Author: Paws
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 4:56pm

I have no advice to offer but can only give big hugs!

I can totally understand why you would be jittery! Hopefully though the next scan will go beautifully and you can relax and enjoy little iggle piggle! ]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 16:56:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266833&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266833 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : Big Hugs Emma. I remember going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266801&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266801 Author: Mama2two
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 3:27pm

Big Hugs Emma. I remember going through the same feelings when pregnant with Sam and not wanting to jinx it! My first scan (at the same place that told me I had lost the last one) was so nerve racking but of course everything was just fine! Just let me remind you that Iggle Piggle is not the baby you lost and is doing really well in there.
Chill out, put your feet up and enjoy Xmas :)    I am looking forward to sharing my b-day with your Iggle Piggle ]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 15:27:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266801&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266801 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : I don&#039;t think you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266794&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266794 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 3:06pm

I don't think you're mad, it's all a bit deja-vu and no wonder you're having flashbacks. I still tend to find things trigger off memories of little bits around that time especially also coming up to xmas and seeing my nephew and all the pics of the gorgeous nov 07 bubs and just wondering what if.

Hang in there Emma, go have your scan, see that beautiful iggle piggle and remember the good. I think you need to find something to do on that day day to make new good memories to replace the old ones.

hugs!]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 15:06:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266794&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266794 <![CDATA[Coping, not coping, hmmm.... : I am getting more and more anxious...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266791&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266791 Author: Maya
Subject: 13180
Posted: 24 December 2007 at 3:01pm

I am getting more and more anxious as the anniversary of my m/c comes up. It will be 2 years on 2 jan since I had the d and c, but I started miscarrying on New Years Eve morning in the bathroom at mum and dads place. Now here I am back at Mum and Dads and pregnant and New Years Eve is fast coming up and I can't even go into the bathroom downstairs where it happened (which I know is stupid coz I have to go up two flights of stairs in the night just to go to the toilet!) and am having awful flashbacks of the exact moment I knew our baby was gone. Plus I have to have my NT scan here some time next week and it looks like I will have to have it at the same place where I had the u/s and found out our baby had died.
So in the middle of all the Xmas chaos I have all this playing on my mind and I just had to get it out there. Last year wasn't so bad as we were in NZ and the gremlins were tiny so I was focussed on them, but this year I have faaaar too much time to think.
Ugh, I think I'm mad!]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2007 15:01:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13180&PID=266791&title=coping-not-coping-hmmm#266791