OHbaby! Forums : I’m angry so angry https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 19:55:00 +0000 Thu, 07 Feb 2008 20:10:33 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=13747 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Big hugs hon!! I have no advice...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=296575&title=im-angry-so-angry#296575 Author: Smartmum
Subject: 13747
Posted: 07 February 2008 at 8:10pm

Big hugs hon!!

I have no advice but if it makes you feel any better i heard what you were saying about angry, sometimes these things are better out than in!

And about your so called (ex) freind, what was she thinking saying 'ffs etc etc' ...who says that Pleased to hear she is not in your life any more.]]> Thu, 07 Feb 2008 20:10:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=296575&title=im-angry-so-angry#296575 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : hi JadeC, i dont have anything...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288555&title=im-angry-so-angry#288555 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 28 January 2008 at 8:03pm

hi JadeC, i dont have anything to do with her anymore, she hasnt tried to contact me, and im just not interested, and i have it on good authority that hell will freeze over before she forgives me...(which im prefectly fine with), my life has definitley been a lot less stressed now im not having to deal with her.]]> Mon, 28 Jan 2008 20:03:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288555&title=im-angry-so-angry#288555 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Oh Kazzle, I&#039;m sorry this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288312&title=im-angry-so-angry#288312 Author: JadeC
Subject: 13747
Posted: 28 January 2008 at 2:32pm

Oh Kazzle, I'm sorry this is happening :( It sounds like your friend is kinda toxic, maybe stepping back from her will help you take care of yourself. Hang in there doll.]]> Mon, 28 Jan 2008 14:32:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288312&title=im-angry-so-angry#288312 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Thanks Roxy, i am doing okay,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288144&title=im-angry-so-angry#288144 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 28 January 2008 at 10:10am

Thanks Roxy, i am doing okay, we are busy getting the house ready to go on the market, so havent had time to think much about anything really....We havent even discussed ttcing again at the moment, i think we are both just waiting to FA before we start again...will be good to have a break]]> Mon, 28 Jan 2008 10:10:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288144&title=im-angry-so-angry#288144 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Hey Kazzle I have never posted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288032&title=im-angry-so-angry#288032 Author: Roxy
Subject: 13747
Posted: 28 January 2008 at 12:05am

Hey Kazzle I have never posted on this particular forum but I have had two misscariages.I can understand how you are feeling.You are probably desperate to get pregnant again but terrified too?I found people say the most dumbest things...even women that have been through it but years before..(so numbed to it a bit by now)like it was meant to be...and...there must have been something wrong with the baby etc....nothing makes it feel any better eh..I wish I could give you the biggest hug!!!I dont have advice to give you though except be good to yourself...its not your fault this is happening.keep trying cause itl so be worth it.I had a misscariage then had Caleb then a misscariage and then Brooke....so dont really know what was going on with me.I used to beat myself up because I had abbortion when I was younger and thought I was being punished by having babies I wanted taken away.strange things go through ya head when heartbreaking things like this happen.my love to ya though hun.I hope you are ok ]]> Mon, 28 Jan 2008 00:05:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=288032&title=im-angry-so-angry#288032 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Kazzle I had the same thing happen...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=284541&title=im-angry-so-angry#284541 Author: tropics
Subject: 13747
Posted: 23 January 2008 at 6:22pm

Kazzle I had the same thing happen when I had my mc the day after my D and C a good friend (so I thought) told me she was pregnant and continued to ask me questions about my pregnancy and pregnancy related questions etc I got of the phone and burst into tears it really shook me.....I emailed her and told her i needed space which she didnt understand and got sh*tty so I am no longer friends with her I realised after talking to alot of other people that you dont need friends like that and at times like that its when you find out who your true friends are

big hugs hun oxoxxoxo]]> Wed, 23 Jan 2008 18:22:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=284541&title=im-angry-so-angry#284541 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : i know how this feels...both with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281611&title=im-angry-so-angry#281611 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 13747
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 1:06pm

i know how this feels...both with the friend..who instead of ringing me..decided to announce it at a party where everyone else knew so I had no option but to quietly freak out and get upset then leave early.. my solution was (after several other things happening before this) to not be friends with her anymore..it has worked out really well and without her i have made new friends and feel a lot better about things..

as far as angry goes.. i only had one m/c and that was enough to make me hate the world and be very angry at everyone as well.. I know i was very blessed to get pregnant again but i still know how it feels to feel a way you just dont want to(I'm not normally an angry perosn either) as you say your feelings are normal..but it sucks:( glad you are feeling a little better today.. ]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 13:06:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281611&title=im-angry-so-angry#281611 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : thanks guys, I am feeling so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281601&title=im-angry-so-angry#281601 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 12:49pm

thanks guys,

I am feeling so much better today, I got a good nights sleep, bleeding almost stopped and hormones seemed to have settled down.]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 12:49:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281601&title=im-angry-so-angry#281601 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Oh Kazzle. I can&#039;t even...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281571&title=im-angry-so-angry#281571 Author: kobec
Subject: 13747
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 11:44am

Oh Kazzle. I can't even imagine what you must be going thru but just know that heaps and heaps and heaps of hugs are getting sent your way. And your 'friend' could definatly have waited at least a few more days till telling you - that was really uncalled for ]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 11:44:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281571&title=im-angry-so-angry#281571 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Kazzle. I am pleased that you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281510&title=im-angry-so-angry#281510 Author: Bumble
Subject: 13747
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 9:56am

Kazzle. I am pleased that you are getting things out! That is very important.

]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 09:56:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281510&title=im-angry-so-angry#281510 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Oh dear Kaz... above all else...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281275&title=im-angry-so-angry#281275 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 9:34pm

Oh dear Kaz... above all else the hormones don't help do they?

I hope you manage to get through things OK... don't be afraid to let people know how you are feeling - better out than in.

xoxoxoxo]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 21:34:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281275&title=im-angry-so-angry#281275 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281228&title=im-angry-so-angry#281228 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 8:43pm

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 20:43:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281228&title=im-angry-so-angry#281228 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281225&title=im-angry-so-angry#281225 Author: Kels
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 8:36pm

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 20:36:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281225&title=im-angry-so-angry#281225 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Kazzle, I dunno if it&#039;s normal...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281216&title=im-angry-so-angry#281216 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 8:23pm

Kazzle, I dunno if it's normal but hope it is, I had a melt down the other night cos we had a family bbq at my place and my sis has never been welcome at my house since paris was little because of a number of reasons, she knows this, she rung me up and did her nut at me cos she couldn't come, and i lost it, I said i hated her, HATED, because i felt that her and mum were half the reason for my PND, that they took almost a year of Paris's life away from me that i'll never get back, and went on to say that I thought she was a crap mother and first and foremost the reason she is not welcome is because if i have to spend another minute in the room with her and her baby, who is longing for a cuddle and all she does is ignore him and leave him in his cot all day to stare at the celing and not ever interact with him and puts having a smoke above going to get him when he is crying.. then i would probably have to restrain myself from hitting her..... I am so angry that she got a baby and treats it like nothing when i so so wanted the baby we lost. don't think she heard much, if any of that, I think she may have hung up. Dammit, somehow i wish she had heard the lot.

How dare she question my reason for not wanting her near me, it's my house and if she hadn't been so stupid for so many years and let me down each time i helped her then i wouldn't have such disdain for her. But the latter part is alot of the reason lately.

I hope/think it's normal to feel angry.

Edited by mum2paris]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 20:23:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281216&title=im-angry-so-angry#281216 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Its good getting things out, it...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281202&title=im-angry-so-angry#281202 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 7:56pm

Its good getting things out, it def helps.

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 19:56:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281202&title=im-angry-so-angry#281202 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : Thanks everyone, its really good...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281198&title=im-angry-so-angry#281198 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 7:48pm

Thanks everyone, its really good knowing that i can post stuff and not be judged for it, and that you guys are so supportive
]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 19:48:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281198&title=im-angry-so-angry#281198 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : big hugs hun ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281188&title=im-angry-so-angry#281188 Author: james
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 7:16pm

big hugs hun]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 19:16:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281188&title=im-angry-so-angry#281188 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : I am trying my hardest not to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281157&title=im-angry-so-angry#281157 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 5:07pm

I am trying my hardest not to take it out on anyone around me, as i know its not their fault, and im trying especially hard not to take it out on Kent and Rhiannon as its not fair to them, and i know Kent is hurting as well.

I am really happy for my friend, they have been trying a long long time to get pregnant, but her timing sucked, and to have her get upset with me, because i didnt go running around there and help celebrate. I have sent her an email explaining how i feel, also explaining that i am happy for her, but she just needs to give me a few days to deal with things....

but then again this friend does think the world should revolve around her, and with my last miscarriage, she said to me " oh ffs i dont see what you are getting so upset about, its not like it had growing into a baby or anything". Im not actually sure why im still friends with her.

I hope she doesnt have to go through this. I hope she never has to find out how hard it is.

anyway i have actually found since posting this message, im not so angry at anything anymore, i think it has helped just getting it out and saying it out loud, i have even told Kent how im feelin, which i should have done a few days ago]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 17:07:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281157&title=im-angry-so-angry#281157 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281154&title=im-angry-so-angry#281154 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 4:56pm

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 16:56:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281154&title=im-angry-so-angry#281154 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : &#039;s to you Kaz. One of my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281136&title=im-angry-so-angry#281136 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 4:27pm

's to you Kaz. One of my really old friends is going through what you are going through and she is angry with herself and others around her. So as a friend I know what it is like.

But OMG at your friend I would be so angry with her.

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 16:27:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281136&title=im-angry-so-angry#281136 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : I have absolutely no idea what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281133&title=im-angry-so-angry#281133 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 4:18pm

I have absolutely no idea what you are going through but just wanted to give you a big cyber hug.

OMG at your friend, what on earth was she thinking!]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 16:18:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281133&title=im-angry-so-angry#281133 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281127&title=im-angry-so-angry#281127 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 4:02pm

]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 16:02:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281127&title=im-angry-so-angry#281127 <![CDATA[I’m angry so angry : I just cant seem to get past being...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281125&title=im-angry-so-angry#281125 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 13747
Posted: 19 January 2008 at 4:01pm

I just cant seem to get past being angry, I am angry at the whole world, angry at every pregnant women i pass in the street, angry that i have had another baby taken from me, angry that my family and friends keep telling me to move on and it will happen when its ready, I bloody well know that, but dont need them telling me that.

Angry at my friend who knew i was losing my baby, and rung me 30mins after i told her that we had lost the baby and announced she was pregnant and then got sh*tty at me because i burst into tears and told her, that while i was happy for her, that i couldnt talk to her right now.

Angry at myself because i feel like i am failing my family, I feel like there is something wrong with me, i feel like i am being punished.

Now that i have said all this, I realise that its normal to feel like this, that its part of the healing process but i hate feeling like this, i dont like who i am at the moment, my husband doesnt like me, and my baby just stands there and cries when i raise my voice...i hope this doesnt last long. ]]> Sat, 19 Jan 2008 16:01:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13747&PID=281125&title=im-angry-so-angry#281125