OHbaby! Forums : Am I weird? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 04:13:21 +0000 Fri, 14 Mar 2008 13:46:23 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15218 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Am I weird? : I don&#039;t think you need to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=325533&title=am-i-weird#325533 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15218
Posted: 14 March 2008 at 1:46pm

I don't think you need to worry Emma - losing a pregnancy/baby is a very personal thing and also dependent on a lot of hormones etc so I would never consider someone weak for 'caring' about their loss. Nor would I consider someone callous for not outwardly dealing with the same thing.

I'm a bit of a stony heart and like to move on from these things quickly. I must admit with the pregnancy I terminated, I did have a massive crying session (which I entirely blame on hormones) but then I got over most of it and just wanted it to happen.

Anyway, internalise away Stacey We all have to deal with these things how we need to!]]> Fri, 14 Mar 2008 13:46:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=325533&title=am-i-weird#325533 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : It&#039;s just the way that I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=325154&title=am-i-weird#325154 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15218
Posted: 13 March 2008 at 9:29pm

It's just the way that I see things. It obviously differs from yours so you shouldn't take offence at it because it wasn't aimed at anyone but myself.

Everyone sees those types of things in life differently and gets effected by it differently. I still stand by what I said. I've seen a friend die of aids.. and watching that is far worse than anything I'll ever go through so that is part of why I said what I said.

Edited by kebakat]]> Thu, 13 Mar 2008 21:29:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=325154&title=am-i-weird#325154 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : OK so I&#039;ve been thinking...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=324992&title=am-i-weird#324992 Author: Maya
Subject: 15218
Posted: 13 March 2008 at 8:11pm

OK so I've been thinking about this since yesterday, and I need to say this. Ouch! I'm a bit offended by your last post Stacey. This is pure;y my opinion, not getting at you personally, but it's going to make my head explode if I don't get this out.
I mean, sure, we all know people who have been thru tough times, I have several friends who have had stillborn babies at term, and a close friend who lost her son to SIDS at 7 months in Feb '06, and that's truly tragic for them. But that doesn't undervalue the things that I have been thru in my life. Who decides which is "worse" and who's had the roughest deal? IMO there is no "worst", each experience is what it is to those going thru it.
I'm normally an incredibly strong person, I take on the problems of the world and don't often take time to feel sorry for myself, but losing my baby was, and is, the most devastating experience I have ever been thru in my life and I don't feel I'm weak because I grieved and raged and reacted to it.
I wasn't suggesting that you definitely *would* go thru the whole rollercoaster thing, just to give you some idea of what *might* happen. ]]> Thu, 13 Mar 2008 20:11:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=324992&title=am-i-weird#324992 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : My friend who is a shrink doesn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323955&title=am-i-weird#323955 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15218
Posted: 12 March 2008 at 7:07pm

My friend who is a shrink doesn't believe that will happen to be (the rollercoaster thing) because I'm the type of person who might get sh*tty if anything is going to happen but I don't get down and depressed. I just take everything in my stride, probably because I've seen friends go through much worse than I have, or ever will. ]]> Wed, 12 Mar 2008 19:07:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323955&title=am-i-weird#323955 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : I think that&#039;s a normal response,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323446&title=am-i-weird#323446 Author: Maya
Subject: 15218
Posted: 12 March 2008 at 10:55am

I think that's a normal response, but at the same time, be prepared for a bit of a rollercoaster over the next few weeks, things seem to hit you when you least expect it, esp with all the hormones etc. involved.]]> Wed, 12 Mar 2008 10:55:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323446&title=am-i-weird#323446 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : You&#039;ve probably already dealt...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323229&title=am-i-weird#323229 Author: busymum
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 10:16pm

You've probably already dealt in part with the knowledge that it 'wasn't going to happen', but I think whatever your thoughts on being pg, anyone who knows they are going to m/c just wants it over and done with. Take care]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 22:16:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=323229&title=am-i-weird#323229 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : Yeah I want the bleeding to hurry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322982&title=am-i-weird#322982 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:38pm

Yeah I want the bleeding to hurry up and start - so long as it's not the hemmorraging that I'm being supervised for.

But I think that will show too, my CM has a pink tinge to it so I'm thinking it won't be too far away. Esp since it's been 5 days since I got those drugs in my system.

But I really don't care that it's miscarrying. The biggest part that sucks is that I'm not allowed to try again for 6 months! Grr!]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:38:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322982&title=am-i-weird#322982 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : no your not weird at all, i felt...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322977&title=am-i-weird#322977 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:37pm

no your not weird at all, i felt excatly the same way, just couldnt wait for it to be all over with, so i could start to deal with it and move one.

(((hugs)))]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:37:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322977&title=am-i-weird#322977 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : No I felt like that too, after...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322966&title=am-i-weird#322966 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:26pm

No I felt like that too, after the scan confirmed for sure that things weren't progressing as they should I just wanted it to end. I was actually relieved when the bleeding started and I am now relieved that it has stopped. I am upset but a lot of it is that I feel that I should be more upset, if that makes sense. I think that perhaps it just hasn't sunk in properly yet.

]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:26:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322966&title=am-i-weird#322966 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : No I don&#039;t think your weird...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322964&title=am-i-weird#322964 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:25pm

No I don't think your weird at all for the way you are thinking. The pregnancy wasn't viable so you want/need it out of your system asap.

]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:25:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322964&title=am-i-weird#322964 <![CDATA[Am I weird? : I&#039;m meant to be miscarrying,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322957&title=am-i-weird#322957 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15218
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:22pm

I'm meant to be miscarrying, my hcg levels had dropped when I had my last bloods (friday) and I've had very mean drugs to "help me along" to make sure this ectopic gets flushed.

Thing is, and this might sound heartless or anything..

But.. I actually don't care that I'm miscarrying. I just want it to hurry up already.

Is this weird?]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:22:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15218&PID=322957&title=am-i-weird#322957