https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 02:49:41 +0000 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:05:50 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15488 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=334076&title=over-here-now#334076 Author: Kellz
Subject: 15488
Posted: 25 March 2008 at 9:05am

So glad u have found a new Dr! She sounds awesome! I cant beleieve your old ne told u it was too soon after Neosha to try again.
Hope u doing ok.]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:05:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=334076&title=over-here-now#334076 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333691&title=over-here-now#333691 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 7:00pm

Lol yes she said she Fully supports my ttc campaign, said its fine to try whenever I like and that she cant wait to palm me off to a midwife and have one less patient to worry about calling her after hours We were having a laugh, it was not in a serious manner in any way.

Edited by NeoshasMummy]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 19:00:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333691&title=over-here-now#333691 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333667&title=over-here-now#333667 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15488
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 6:39pm

Great you have some meds for it, hopefully the new doctor is better than the last one.]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:39:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333667&title=over-here-now#333667 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333575&title=over-here-now#333575 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 4:58pm

Went to the doctor, not the flu lol a chest infection, throat infection and ulceration of the throat. Great lol $55 later but at least I have some antibiotics Oh and a new doctor.]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 16:58:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=333575&title=over-here-now#333575 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=332879&title=over-here-now#332879 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 23 March 2008 at 2:24pm

Im pretty sure its the flu, my throat is raw and today my voice is gone completely I have never lost my voice before lol
DH got me some of this throat spray from the pharmacy it stings so bad. I think im going to go to the doctor about it just to check everything out though]]> Sun, 23 Mar 2008 14:24:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=332879&title=over-here-now#332879 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331943&title=over-here-now#331943 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15488
Posted: 21 March 2008 at 6:31pm

I would keep an eye on those flu like symptoms in case you have an infection of some sort. Hopefully is just the flu though, sucky time to get it ]]> Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:31:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331943&title=over-here-now#331943 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331891&title=over-here-now#331891 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 21 March 2008 at 4:13pm

Thanks guys.

Its horrible that we have dates now that will alwyas be surrounded by sadness

Today I seem to have the flu??? I think... feels like the flu anyway]]> Fri, 21 Mar 2008 16:13:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331891&title=over-here-now#331891 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331480&title=over-here-now#331480 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 9:17pm

awwww honey i'm sorry for your loss. i really do feel for all you ladies that go through this.

as far as your dr...ditch the tart!! that's so insensitive! it may have been a short pregnancy, but it was still your baby!

as the others have said, TTC again is up to you and when you feel ready emotionally and physically. there's no such thing as too close in age gap, it is what you want it to be.

take care hun and enjoy your easter ]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 21:17:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331480&title=over-here-now#331480 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331381&title=over-here-now#331381 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 8:35pm

I lost bubs whilst Richard's parents were visiting from England, all those photos are never going to be entirely happy ones to look back on.

Enjoy your drink.]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:35:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331381&title=over-here-now#331381 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331366&title=over-here-now#331366 Author: Maya
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 8:28pm

More hugs New Years is like that for me too, we started losing our baby on Dec 31st and I had a d and c on 2 Jan.]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:28:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331366&title=over-here-now#331366 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331361&title=over-here-now#331361 Author: Kels
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 8:26pm

]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:26:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331361&title=over-here-now#331361 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331341&title=over-here-now#331341 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 8:14pm

bleeding seems to have stopped, just spotting now. A relief really. Going to have a drink tonight lol at least I KNOW im not pregnant.

Hope all you girls have a great easter break, although I think every easter will be tainted for me now Yeah im going to have a look around for a nice doctor that I can start fresh with

My gosh being on here has really helped! I cant talk to DH about most of this stuff its good to have girlies around to open up to (really supportive ones at that) I feel like ive got the anger out and now I can just grieve.

Edited by NeoshasMummy]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:14:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331341&title=over-here-now#331341 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331319&title=over-here-now#331319 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 7:57pm

So, so sorry this happened. Am thinking of you. A miscarriage can still be devastating no matter how short a time you were pregnant.]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 19:57:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331319&title=over-here-now#331319 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331189&title=over-here-now#331189 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 5:00pm

i totally get the zero interest in sex (for me too scared of having another mc!!) just wanted to say big hugs to you and change doctors..what a horrible person:(! ]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 17:00:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331189&title=over-here-now#331189 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331186&title=over-here-now#331186 Author: Kellz
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 4:59pm

Oh so sorry you are going through this.

Really think u should get a new Dr.

Take care ]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:59:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331186&title=over-here-now#331186 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331158&title=over-here-now#331158 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 4:38pm

Thanks for the info. It has just been going over and over in my head all day grrr my MIL rang to ask me if I would use the same nappies this time round because she will start stocking up for me because they were on special (DH opened his mouth WAYYY to early) and I broke down. Its not his fault but still. And now I get agro at him for no reason, well I feel like he isnt hurting as much as I am and it grates me AND on top of that I have an obsession to get pregnant again almost like I want to replace this one... except when I say it I cringe.

As for the doctor I saw, I am PEAVED the info she was giving me was crap and yet she FAILED to tell me the things I needed to know like where to get support and things to look out for grrr instead she just ranted to me about how silly it is to have babies so close together!!! Almost like it was my fault for even trying.
Anyway no more agro from me I guess this will pass and things will get better, everybody is telling me to wait a few months to try again, I dont know I guess we wont TRY but I wont prevent either at the mo I have zero interest in having sex EVER again but I guess that will pass as well.

Anyway I just want to say how amazed I am with all u girls that have been through this and come out the other end. I wasnt pregnant for long but i have been so sure of it the last few weeks and having the positive results gave me so much hope. ]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:38:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331158&title=over-here-now#331158 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331122&title=over-here-now#331122 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 4:03pm

My doc actually encouraged me to have another baby (instead of looking into possibly having endo, long story) at the time Spencer was only 7 months. My gp also didn't think my miscarriage was anything to do with the age gap or anything else I had or hadn't done, it was just one of those things. Unfortunately they happen sometimes and there is nothing you could have done about it. So I think really your doc was talking out of his butt.
My doc has said is fine to try again, physically, i'm just trying to decide whether i am ready emotionally.

As for bleeding mine started late on wednesday (11pm ish) was brown mucous when I wiped after doing wees, nothing over night and then started properly bleeding on the thursday, by the Monday I was on pantyliners only and by Tuesday evening it was all over. General rule is the same as or slightly heavier than "your" normal period.

]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:03:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331122&title=over-here-now#331122 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331084&title=over-here-now#331084 Author: Maya
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 3:21pm

Hugs!
As you were so early in your pregnancy, the bleeding shouldn't be much more than a period, maybe a little heavier, so hopefully it will be over for you quickly.

Unless your doctor knows something we don't, there's no physical reason not to try again soon, the most important thing is making sure you are emotionally ready.

And for what it's worth, I have a friend who gave birth to her son on her twins' first birthday so I don't think I agree that you neccessarily miscarried coz it's "too soon" after Neosha.]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 15:21:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331084&title=over-here-now#331084 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331071&title=over-here-now#331071 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 3:03pm

you start trying when you are ready.

As for the bleeding i would think i should only last as long as your period normally would, 7 days possibly.

am thinking of you]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 15:03:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331071&title=over-here-now#331071 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331070&title=over-here-now#331070 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 3:03pm

Sorry no advice, just wanting to send some big hugs to you. I think someone did a recent post about whether to wait a while or try again straight away, will find it for you...]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 15:03:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331070&title=over-here-now#331070 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331043&title=over-here-now#331043 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 2:51pm

I'm really sorry to hear about this

Will be thinking of you.]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 14:51:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331043&title=over-here-now#331043 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331032&title=over-here-now#331032 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15488
Posted: 20 March 2008 at 2:41pm

So I guess its time to come over here, just got off the phone from my doctor who said that I probably misscarried because my body knows its too soon after having Neosha. She is 10 months old I cant see that being the case. If anything I think it was having my iud removed and not waiting for a cycle before ttc, she disagrees.
Anyway when does this bleeding stop? I just want the memory of it to be over, everytime I go to the bathroom I start crying again its so stupid.

How long did u guys wait before TTC again??? My doctor said I should wait until Neosha is older before even starting to try but a friend of mine is due with her second baby 2 days after her first babys 1st Birthday THAT IS CLOSE lol so what do u guys think?

Sorry there r just so many things going round in my brain]]> Thu, 20 Mar 2008 14:41:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15488&PID=331032&title=over-here-now#331032