OHbaby! Forums : NO, i angry! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 07:32:55 +0000 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 15:25:13 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15518 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : No advice..... We have a similar...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=405609&title=no-i-angry#405609 Author: WiggleBums
Subject: 15518
Posted: 06 June 2008 at 3:25pm

No advice..... We have a similar problem with "GO AWAY"
again I think its about not being able to verbalize his feelings...]]> Fri, 06 Jun 2008 15:25:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=405609&title=no-i-angry#405609 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : Oh i know that feeling! I get...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=391192&title=no-i-angry#391192 Author: ashton2003
Subject: 15518
Posted: 22 May 2008 at 3:48pm

Oh i know that feeling! I get the 'i'm not going to play with you anymore' and 'you are not my friend anymore' lol then 5 minutes later things are back to normal!]]> Thu, 22 May 2008 15:48:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=391192&title=no-i-angry#391192 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : sarah started doing this just...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=390850&title=no-i-angry#390850 Author: Candkids
Subject: 15518
Posted: 22 May 2008 at 11:44am

sarah started doing this just after jett was born,
id just say to her " its ok to feel angry, why dont you tell mummy whats making you angry and we can try and make it better"
this usually worked

now weve hit the 5yr old "i hate you, i dont like you, im not your friend " stage ]]> Thu, 22 May 2008 11:44:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=390850&title=no-i-angry#390850 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : my son is 4 and a half. over the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=390727&title=no-i-angry#390727 Author: ashton2003
Subject: 15518
Posted: 22 May 2008 at 10:34am

my son is 4 and a half. over the past few months he has been expressing his feelings a lot more than usual. he has also been telling me he is angry, unhappy etc. i was worried at first, but after speaking with a few friends of mine i came to the conclusion that he was just trying to express his feelings as he just found out what beign angry or unhappy meant. i chose to mostly ignore what he was saying (unless i knew for sure that he was telling the truth) and now the phase has past. hope that helps :)]]> Thu, 22 May 2008 10:34:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=390727&title=no-i-angry#390727 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : have you got any books that explain...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333901&title=no-i-angry#333901 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 15518
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 9:50pm

have you got any books that explain feelings? like Happy and sad etc...not the mr men books tho! LOL!

and how about a new baby in the house book? maybe some of those being read to him by yu or daddy might help?

his saying he is angry or not happy might not actually mean that at all....try the library if you dont have the books...i know there are plenty around....]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:50:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333901&title=no-i-angry#333901 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : I kinda know how it feels. Hannah...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333739&title=no-i-angry#333739 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 15518
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:14pm

I kinda know how it feels. Hannah just looks so heart breakingly sad sometimes, and it just makes me want to cry. Big hugs seem to work. As does putting down the baby even if shes crying or something. Also talking to her about how she is feeling - she is just learning the names of feelings but she knows happy, sad and angry, and talking/acknowledging it does seem to help.

Good luck ]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:14:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333739&title=no-i-angry#333739 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : maybe he is having the 4yr old...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333725&title=no-i-angry#333725 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 15518
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:01pm

maybe he is having the 4yr old testosterone overload that most boys get, they can get super angry and physical at this time, if it is this it will pass soon enough, sorry doesn't help much but I do see this alot in the 4yr old boys i work with, kinda like they get nasty pms for a few weeks..

]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:01:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333725&title=no-i-angry#333725 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : Eek, I don&#039;t have any advice...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333541&title=no-i-angry#333541 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15518
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 4:12pm

Eek, I don't have any advice that is worth giving but I hope you manage to get through this stage... it sounds a bit heart wrenching and must be quite hard to balance the needs of all your kiddos (and hubby!)

xoxo]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 16:12:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=333541&title=no-i-angry#333541 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : Firstly I want to say that it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=331754&title=no-i-angry#331754 Author: .Mel
Subject: 15518
Posted: 21 March 2008 at 11:05am

Firstly I want to say that it's pretty good that he can acknowledge the way he is feeling, and can vocalise it to you.

Personally I would be acknowledging the way he's feeling. That's one thing that I learnt with Conor when my ex died.

Can DH take the two little ones for you for an hour or so, so you can spend some time together? He may be missing his mummy.

I know that he's a gentle boy because I saw that the other day with him and Cooper, and he was being so kind to Cooper.

He could be really confused about Eden's arrival and maybe he doesn't know where he fits in at the moment.

Maybe say something like "I'm sorry you feel so angry, is there anything that I can do to make you feel better".

]]> Fri, 21 Mar 2008 11:05:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=331754&title=no-i-angry#331754 <![CDATA[NO, i angry! : This is what i have been hearing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=331747&title=no-i-angry#331747 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 15518
Posted: 21 March 2008 at 10:56am

This is what i have been hearing from my 4 yr old a lot lately. I know there has been lots of upheaval in his life lately but i am getting a bit worried. He wont communicate anything past that hes angry so i dont even know what it is he is really feeling.

Should i just be acknowledging it and letting him get on with it or should i be trying to get him to tell me more. I tried that this morning but he just said to leave him alone..and being so hormonal still made me almost burst into tears...i kept it under control but only just.

Oh and the week that i was away he kept telling everyone that he wasnt happy. "I not happy" was the first thing he said to people, including a lady at the supermarket who tried to talk to him ...

Any of you wise ladies have any advice?! ]]> Fri, 21 Mar 2008 10:56:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15518&PID=331747&title=no-i-angry#331747