OHbaby! Forums : father/daughter https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 00:18:05 +0000 Mon, 21 Apr 2008 23:34:43 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=16079 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[father/daughter : imagine the torment that poor...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=362583&title=father-daughter#362583 Author: Candkids
Subject: 16079
Posted: 21 April 2008 at 11:34pm

imagine the torment that poor kid will get when shes older at high school as soon as someone finds that out!!! poor thing.]]> Mon, 21 Apr 2008 23:34:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=362583&title=father-daughter#362583 <![CDATA[father/daughter : MrsMojo wrote:I only watched...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=356240&title=father-daughter#356240 Author: pepsi
Subject: 16079
Posted: 15 April 2008 at 4:37pm

Originally posted by MrsMojo MrsMojo wrote:

I only watched a bit of 60mins (in the ads of the show I was watching) but while I was watching they did some of the interview with their baby girl in the bath and I found myself wondering if he'll be sexually attracted to his daughter/grandaughter in 20 years and what he's going to do about that.

I also feel very very sorry for the older children, 9 & 14 from Ms Deaves previous relationship. They have now been interviewed and the interview has been broadcasted internationally so now all their school friends know their family's sordid affairs. I can't imagine it's going to be easy for them.


Yeah I thought about him and his daughter/grandaughter as well but then again, I figured he'll probably be dead by the time she's an adult anyway..

The older kids don't know any differently so they think it's ok, but when they are older I'm sure it will dawn on them that it's pretty bad.]]> Tue, 15 Apr 2008 16:37:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=356240&title=father-daughter#356240 <![CDATA[father/daughter : I only watched a bit of 60mins...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355539&title=father-daughter#355539 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16079
Posted: 15 April 2008 at 8:00am

I only watched a bit of 60mins (in the ads of the show I was watching) but while I was watching they did some of the interview with their baby girl in the bath and I found myself wondering if he'll be sexually attracted to his daughter/grandaughter in 20 years and what he's going to do about that.

I also feel very very sorry for the older children, 9 & 14 from Ms Deaves previous relationship. They have now been interviewed and the interview has been broadcasted internationally so now all their school friends know their family's sordid affairs. I can't imagine it's going to be easy for them.]]> Tue, 15 Apr 2008 08:00:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355539&title=father-daughter#355539 <![CDATA[father/daughter : ewwwwwww Think I am very glad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355535&title=father-daughter#355535 Author: Paws
Subject: 16079
Posted: 15 April 2008 at 7:51am

ewwwwwww Think I am very glad I didn't watch it!!!!]]> Tue, 15 Apr 2008 07:51:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355535&title=father-daughter#355535 <![CDATA[father/daughter : For Mr Deaves the sexual relationship...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355509&title=father-daughter#355509 Author: Mookey
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 11:44pm

For Mr Deaves the sexual relationship was "absolutely fantastic".

Blerk! ]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 23:44:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355509&title=father-daughter#355509 <![CDATA[father/daughter : pepsi im with you....sometimes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355310&title=father-daughter#355310 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:50pm

pepsi im with you....sometimes people just have to suck it up and do whats right and not right to bring a child into the world like that..its creepy and just wrong..ick..:( sorry to be so opiniated but did you hear how lucky they were to even have a healthy child? ]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:50:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355310&title=father-daughter#355310 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Well, I watched it and am even...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355238&title=father-daughter#355238 Author: pepsi
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:16pm

Well, I watched it and am even more grossed out now cause they showed them kissing Also, they had another couple in Scotland who are half brother and sister who are in the same situation. They have the same mother and she walked in on them having sex one day then dobbed them into the police.

Apparently for both couples, they were charged with incest, however are allowed to live together on probation and aren't allowed to have sex or they will be thrown in jail.. I mean come on, of course they're still having sex!!]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:16:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355238&title=father-daughter#355238 <![CDATA[father/daughter : I watched it and I have to say...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355237&title=father-daughter#355237 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:14pm

I watched it and I have to say their daughter is very cute. But it is very weird.

]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:14:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355237&title=father-daughter#355237 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Well said Kelly ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355234&title=father-daughter#355234 Author: Kels
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:12pm

Well said Kelly

]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:12:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355234&title=father-daughter#355234 <![CDATA[father/daughter : me neither! im gonna put it in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355159&title=father-daughter#355159 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:18pm

me neither!

im gonna put it in a really blunt ,immature way , the penis that she willingly let help make her daughter, made her too....

I've heard that some girls marry guys who remind them of their fathers , but this is going way too far !! ]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 19:18:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=355159&title=father-daughter#355159 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Yeah I saw that....not sure that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=354444&title=father-daughter#354444 Author: Paws
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:58am

Yeah I saw that....not sure that I can bring myself to watch it mind you....]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 07:58:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=354444&title=father-daughter#354444 <![CDATA[father/daughter : There is an interview with them...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=354431&title=father-daughter#354431 Author: pepsi
Subject: 16079
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:32am

There is an interview with them on 60 minutes tonight... ]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 07:32:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=354431&title=father-daughter#354431 <![CDATA[father/daughter : creepy and weird! i feel sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352819&title=father-daughter#352819 Author: Candkids
Subject: 16079
Posted: 11 April 2008 at 10:51pm

creepy and weird!

i feel sorry for that poor child, just imagine what its going to be like for that kid at highschool when someone finds out that her grandads her DAD! i think it is so unfair on the kid, children are innocent and dont deserve to have to hav something like that hanging over them there entire life.]]> Fri, 11 Apr 2008 22:51:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352819&title=father-daughter#352819 <![CDATA[father/daughter : I watched a documentry on this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352603&title=father-daughter#352603 Author: Jessica
Subject: 16079
Posted: 11 April 2008 at 8:05pm

I watched a documentry on this recently, apparently it is something that happens quite often in seperated families and with adoption. It said it is becoming an increasing issue with the world as it is (attraction rather than actually reproducing)! They even discussed it with a someone who specialises in helping people deal with it in the UK]]> Fri, 11 Apr 2008 20:05:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352603&title=father-daughter#352603 <![CDATA[father/daughter : They must be mistaking family...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352447&title=father-daughter#352447 Author: popcorn
Subject: 16079
Posted: 11 April 2008 at 5:36pm

They must be mistaking family love for being in love surely!!!!!!!!! its impossible to actually be in love with your Dad surely!]]> Fri, 11 Apr 2008 17:36:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=352447&title=father-daughter#352447 <![CDATA[father/daughter : LOL you lot are a crack up.. Talk...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348432&title=father-daughter#348432 Author: Neeks
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:39pm

LOL you lot are a crack up..

Talk about keeping it in the family!!! ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 22:39:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348432&title=father-daughter#348432 <![CDATA[father/daughter : My first thought was ewwww! But...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348405&title=father-daughter#348405 Author: Maya
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:26pm

My first thought was ewwww!

But you lot make me giggle - moobs, and penguins and incest...]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 22:26:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348405&title=father-daughter#348405 <![CDATA[father/daughter : did you notice the daughters name,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348114&title=father-daughter#348114 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:28pm

did you notice the daughters name, almost rhymes with incest!!!]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:28:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348114&title=father-daughter#348114 <![CDATA[father/daughter : pepsi wrote:But come on ladies...it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348052&title=father-daughter#348052 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:07pm

Originally posted by pepsi pepsi wrote:

But come on ladies...it's obvious why she finds him too sexy to resist, I mean, look at him! Who wants some good looking younger man when you can have an elderly, age-spotted git with moobs!



Mmmm. He does have that sort of movie star appeal - if you're into Danny Devito playing The Penguin in Batman.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:07:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=348052&title=father-daughter#348052 <![CDATA[father/daughter : But come on ladies...it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347998&title=father-daughter#347998 Author: pepsi
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:25pm

But come on ladies...it's obvious why she finds him too sexy to resist, I mean, look at him! Who wants some good looking younger man when you can have an elderly, age-spotted git with moobs!

]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 19:25:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347998&title=father-daughter#347998 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Paws wrote:Sorry but it is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347989&title=father-daughter#347989 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:15pm

Originally posted by Paws Paws wrote:

Sorry but it is just wrong to me on so many levels....and for the child, even if she is healthy imagaine if she ever has to explain it when growing up...gotta be hard!



Hi, This is my mum and my big sister - no no they're the same person. Oh look and here comes my dad and grandad now - ah yep, they're the same person too.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 19:15:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347989&title=father-daughter#347989 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Sorry but it is just wrong to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347957&title=father-daughter#347957 Author: Paws
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:46pm

Sorry but it is just wrong to me on so many levels....and for the child, even if she is healthy imagaine if she ever has to explain it when growing up...gotta be hard!]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:46:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347957&title=father-daughter#347957 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Well here&#039;s a picture of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347932&title=father-daughter#347932 Author: pepsi
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:26pm

Well here's a picture of the happy *gag* family



News Story

Edited by pepsi]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:26:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347932&title=father-daughter#347932 <![CDATA[father/daughter : &#039;Mr Deaves told Channel Nine...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347832&title=father-daughter#347832 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:44pm

'Mr Deaves told Channel Nine that he "initially" thought having sex with his daughter was wrong.

"Emotions take over, as people no doubt realise. There are times during your life where emotions do rule the heart, it rules the head," he said'


Hmmm. I think something else was ruling Mr Deaves - something much lower down than the heart (somewhere that many mens brains are thought to reside).

Edited by MrsMojo]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:44:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347832&title=father-daughter#347832 <![CDATA[father/daughter : yes very true mrsmojo.. sadly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347821&title=father-daughter#347821 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:35pm

yes very true mrsmojo.. sadly most people are of this opinion! ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:35:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347821&title=father-daughter#347821 <![CDATA[father/daughter : That is sick, disturbing and mean...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347816&title=father-daughter#347816 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:31pm

That is sick, disturbing and mean (to the child - the risks of birth defects in children born of incest has been well known for centuries).

It also makes me so sad that there are people out there that think you can't have a deep and meaningful relationship without sex.

]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:31:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347816&title=father-daughter#347816 <![CDATA[father/daughter : one word.......sick just MHO...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347795&title=father-daughter#347795 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:13pm

one word.......sick

just MHO ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:13:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347795&title=father-daughter#347795 <![CDATA[father/daughter : just heard that they actually...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347758&title=father-daughter#347758 Author: MyBelly
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 3:47pm

just heard that they actually had a baby born in 2001 that died just after birth from a congenital disease, so they obviously knew the risks that this 2nd baby may have problems due to being conceived incestuously!]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 15:47:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347758&title=father-daughter#347758 <![CDATA[father/daughter : I wasn&#039;t trying to have a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347670&title=father-daughter#347670 Author: caraMel
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:44pm

I wasn't trying to have a go Alia, sorry if I sounded that way!
Its the fact that they both knew what their biological relationship was and that fact alone wasn't enough to put them off. Very weird to me.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:44:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347670&title=father-daughter#347670 <![CDATA[father/daughter : but it does though... it hurts...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347465&title=father-daughter#347465 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 12:06pm

but it does though... it hurts the child..esp when it grows up..and its quite likely to have some biological issues too..:( i get the actual relationship bit..that happens often with seperated twins etc.. but its still gross:( ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 12:06:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347465&title=father-daughter#347465 <![CDATA[father/daughter : Yeah - as I said I think it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347409&title=father-daughter#347409 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:24am

Yeah - as I said I think it's a bit messed to bring kids into it, but honestly other than that it doesn't effect anyone but them. It's their business IMO, it might not be for me, but if it doesn't hurt anyone else then what's the harm?]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 11:24:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347409&title=father-daughter#347409 <![CDATA[father/daughter : ewww im sorry but i so dont find...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347392&title=father-daughter#347392 Author: MyBelly
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:13am

ewww im sorry but i so dont find my dad sexually attractive, and from what i read she must have been about 1yr old when he left which means he probably wiped poop of her bum and now finds her sexually attractive??

i feel sorry for the baby involved, what a complicated family tree!! my father is also my grandfather, my mother is my half sister, my aunties and uncles are my half brothers and sisters and my grandmother is also my fathers ex partner.

only in australia (hehe cheeky i know, and no offence to any australians PLEASE!!)]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 11:13:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347392&title=father-daughter#347392 <![CDATA[father/daughter : yeah im very liberal but i think...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347391&title=father-daughter#347391 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:12am

yeah im very liberal but i think its wrong too... having a child with a biological relative like that is awful for the child both biologically and mentally:(
]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 11:12:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347391&title=father-daughter#347391 <![CDATA[father/daughter : ewww they KNEW the were family...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347343&title=father-daughter#347343 Author: james
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:45am

ewww they KNEW the were family ewwww SOME people are sick]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 10:45:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347343&title=father-daughter#347343 <![CDATA[father/daughter : I&#039;m not as open minded about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347303&title=father-daughter#347303 Author: caraMel
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:11am

I'm not as open minded about that kind of thing as you Alia! They both knew about their biological relationship, regardless of whether they grew up as a family with a father-daughter influence.
IMO its just wrong and gross, even more so to bring a child into it with all the physical and psychological implications. ]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 10:11:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347303&title=father-daughter#347303 <![CDATA[father/daughter : They seem to have a good attitude...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347255&title=father-daughter#347255 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:24am

They seem to have a good attitude about it *shrug* So long as you didn't grow up with the person, I don't think it's all that bad... having a kid is another matter though, but it looks like they are lucky and she is healthy.

If she had grown up with him (I think I read it right that she didn't) then that's veeery different. Partly because he could've been influencing her into it from a young age, and partly because of the relationship they would already have had.]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:24:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347255&title=father-daughter#347255 <![CDATA[father/daughter : http://nz.news.yahoo.com/080406/9/4s2p.html hmmm...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347247&title=father-daughter#347247 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 16079
Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:16am

http://nz.news.yahoo.com/080406/9/4s2p.html

hmmm ....]]> Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:16:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16079&PID=347247&title=father-daughter#347247