OHbaby! Forums : No such thing as overprotective... https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 04:12:47 +0000 Sun, 11 May 2008 20:50:02 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=17090 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : I am all for &#034;second chances&#034;...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380653&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380653 Author: lizzle
Subject: 17090
Posted: 11 May 2008 at 8:50pm

I am all for "second chances" amd such ,but pedophilia has such a high rate or re-offending, it seems ridiculous.]]> Sun, 11 May 2008 20:50:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380653&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380653 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : I hate that there are people like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380635&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380635 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 17090
Posted: 11 May 2008 at 8:33pm

I hate that there are people like that out there, you really can't trust anyone.]]> Sun, 11 May 2008 20:33:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380635&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380635 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : i got this from that site... so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380613&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380613 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 17090
Posted: 11 May 2008 at 8:18pm

i got this from that site... so there are a few places we as parents can access to find more out about potential risks to our kids...

Sensible Sentencing Paedophile and Sex Offender Database ( http://www.safe-nz.org.nz/ ) ,
There is a pathetically small number of people listed there given that 1:5 girls and 1:7 boys under the age of 16 are abused in NZ.
Deborah Coddington’s New Zealand Paedophile and Sex Offender Index (a book that is available to buy or borrow from the library…..]]> Sun, 11 May 2008 20:18:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380613&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380613 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : thats so horrible. my daughters...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380527&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380527 Author: Candkids
Subject: 17090
Posted: 11 May 2008 at 7:00pm

thats so horrible.
my daughters dads family has a convicted child sex offender in their family, but they dont seem to think theres anything wrong with him being at family functions around peoples kids.
i wont let her go to anything]]> Sun, 11 May 2008 19:00:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380527&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380527 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : My god. Disgusting,i so agree...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380507&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380507 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 17090
Posted: 11 May 2008 at 6:36pm

My god. Disgusting,i so agree Becks, we should be able to access a list of known paedophiles , its very unfair that they weren't informed the man next door was a known sex offender ]]> Sun, 11 May 2008 18:36:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380507&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380507 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : Coming from a family that has...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380136&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380136 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 17090
Posted: 10 May 2008 at 10:59pm

Coming from a family that has had this happen from an another family member it is really sad. It is known these days that it will be done by someone that is really close to the family and they are sneaky and manipulative. I so believe that there should be a list of known paedophiles so we can protect our children.

]]> Sat, 10 May 2008 22:59:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380136&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380136 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : Oohhh, yeah heard about this one,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380128&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380128 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 17090
Posted: 10 May 2008 at 10:43pm

Oohhh, yeah heard about this one, she's on TNN. Poor wee kiddlets! ]]> Sat, 10 May 2008 22:43:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=380128&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#380128 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : omg ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=379889&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#379889 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 17090
Posted: 10 May 2008 at 6:15pm

omg ]]> Sat, 10 May 2008 18:15:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=379889&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#379889 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : That is so terribly sad... and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=379873&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#379873 Author: pepsi
Subject: 17090
Posted: 10 May 2008 at 5:53pm

That is so terribly sad... and it's not like she had totally left the kids alone with him for the night or anything, she always seemed to be within a reasonable distance. It is pretty disgusting that these kinds of people can be allowed to live amongst the general population cause I'm pretty sure you can't "cure" a paedophile and make them safe in the community.

Makes me worry about when Alyssa is older and wants to stay the night at a school friends place.. you just never know what that situation is like in their home. Sure, you may meet the parents once and think "they seem nice" but who knows?

]]> Sat, 10 May 2008 17:53:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=379873&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#379873 <![CDATA[No such thing as overprotective... : This LINK was emailed to me by...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17090&PID=379835&title=no-such-thing-as-overprotective#379835 Author: caraMel
Subject: 17090
Posted: 10 May 2008 at 4:12pm

This LINK was emailed to me by a friend of mine.
The fact that is is written by a NZ mother with a happy, healthy family life, who was responsible about telling her children about bad touching, who made sure her children felt comfortable talking to her about it and actually took the time to ask them questions about it to make sure they were ok, really brings home to me the fact that you can never be too careful, or too protective when it comes to your children's safety and wellbeing.
I know that we can't and shouldn't feel suspicious of everyone but it really makes you realise just how clever these sickos are. How it can be happening right under your nose and still you have no idea, like this poor mother.
The fact that this guy had been convicted and imprisoned in the past and was still able to live next door to, and be so involved in the lives of this family is so disturbing. I know that they have to live somewhere after they do their time and that it is unreasonable to expect them to find a place with no small children in the vicinity.. Its just so frightening to think this could be any one of us, any one of our neighbours. And we are essentially helpless to find out.




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