https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 08:45:33 +0000 Tue, 08 Jul 2008 22:36:03 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=18892 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=434958&title=i-feel-low#434958 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18892
Posted: 08 July 2008 at 10:36pm

Oh chicky, it just sucks!

Its not far, we dont deserve it and it just sucks!!!!!!

Big hugs lovely.

]]> Tue, 08 Jul 2008 22:36:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=434958&title=i-feel-low#434958 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=433085&title=i-feel-low#433085 Author: Nefertiti
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 11:19pm

I still have a lurk in the due Jan thread linda....but like you, I have been trying to go in there less and less.
Unfortunately I feel (well for me anyway), when you are TTC'ing so much of your time if spent thinking about that and when finally getting a BFP you can finally start looking to the future. But to have that all taken away by a m/c is heartbreaking. No matter how early it was.
I know how you feel Vanillabean and hope that you can find some comfort here at OB. I know that I have over the past few weeks.

BIG HUGS to you!!!]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:19:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=433085&title=i-feel-low#433085 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432962&title=i-feel-low#432962 Author: linda
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 8:46pm

I felt the same after my last MC but kept it pretty much to myself. I just couldn't get my mind off everything relating to the baby. It took a couple of weeks for me to accept what had happened.   I really missed not going onto the Due in Dec thread on a daily basis and being able to talk about all things baby relating. Its now a couple of months since my MC and I have only just stopped myself lurking in this thread...and its not easy, even now.

I hope that time helps with the healing process]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:46:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432962&title=i-feel-low#432962 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432954&title=i-feel-low#432954 Author: Maya
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 8:39pm

Big hugs to you. Grief sucks, but it is definitely a process and it does get easier with time.

OT but I like the quote in your signature, "while I breathe, I hope." ]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:39:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432954&title=i-feel-low#432954 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432835&title=i-feel-low#432835 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 5:01pm

*sigh* yes i second what PP said...i was the same:( big hugs to you!

Edited by foxxy_one]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 17:01:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432835&title=i-feel-low#432835 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432779&title=i-feel-low#432779 Author: katie1
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 3:52pm

I really feel for you. What you are feeling is so normal but I know that doesn't help. Sending you a huge hug. Take care. ]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 15:52:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432779&title=i-feel-low#432779 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432758&title=i-feel-low#432758 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 3:11pm

Aww Helen big to you. Its great you have lots of support around you ]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 15:11:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432758&title=i-feel-low#432758 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432725&title=i-feel-low#432725 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 18892
Posted: 06 July 2008 at 1:54pm

I just feel so sad right now and nothing really seems to help for long. And I am feeling obsessed with trying to prevent another miscarriage, I can't really think about much else.

I hope I feel better soon. I already take antidepressants (God knows what state I'd be in right now if I didn't), and I've had counselling and my friends,family and workmates have been lovely and supportive, but grieving is just such hard work.]]> Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:54:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18892&PID=432725&title=i-feel-low#432725