OHbaby! Forums : Trying again, any advice? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 07:36:38 +0000 Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:45:08 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=20245 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Everything seems ok in test results,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=494801&title=trying-again-any-advice#494801 Author: dotty
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Posted: 19 September 2008 at 1:45pm

Everything seems ok in test results, just mother nature being a b........ ]]> Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:45:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=494801&title=trying-again-any-advice#494801 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Think saw in another thread that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=494675&title=trying-again-any-advice#494675 Author: nellybelly
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Posted: 19 September 2008 at 11:32am

Think saw in another thread that you had some tests done by a specialist, did any useful info come back from those? ]]> Fri, 19 Sep 2008 11:32:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=494675&title=trying-again-any-advice#494675 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : I know of someone who kept m/c...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=490867&title=trying-again-any-advice#490867 Author: busymum
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Posted: 14 September 2008 at 9:44pm

I know of someone who kept m/c boys. I think she might have had RHneg blood but I'm not sure exactly what made it not happen for her. She had 4 girls in the end but it sounded like a few m/c boys from what her daughter told me.]]> Sun, 14 Sep 2008 21:44:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=490867&title=trying-again-any-advice#490867 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Hi Dotty, Firstly I am sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=489724&title=trying-again-any-advice#489724 Author: maudie23
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Posted: 12 September 2008 at 9:27pm

Hi Dotty,
Firstly I am sorry you are going through this.

I have suffered 3 mc's, there is nothing to say that I had a problem.
It has been noted that I will be closely monitored if I am carrying a girl as this maybe my problem.

It is strange, however not that unheard of. I know a couple of good friends that couldn't carry Girls. It is something you should talk to your do about and get some tests done.

I am currently 7 1/2 week pregnant with my 4th Pregnancy, this time everything feels so different.
Don't give up Dotty, good things are just around the corner.

]]> Fri, 12 Sep 2008 21:27:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=489724&title=trying-again-any-advice#489724 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Hi. I also know people who say...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=489669&title=trying-again-any-advice#489669 Author: JHS
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Posted: 12 September 2008 at 7:22pm

Hi. I also know people who say they can only carry one sex or the other, but don't know of any scientific proof of this (I hope it isn't true). We did time sex to make our first a boy and it worked - although maybe he would have been anyway. So I am suscribing to that theory for now, we have been trying for a girl this time and had 2 mc, but I think it might be luteal phase disorder cos my cycles are really long and ovulating late.]]> Fri, 12 Sep 2008 19:22:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=489669&title=trying-again-any-advice#489669 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Thanks, I know what you mean,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472363&title=trying-again-any-advice#472363 Author: dotty
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Posted: 21 August 2008 at 8:55pm

Thanks, I know what you mean, I have been doing the 'do you really want that baby/bump' look at some people! I bet if I hadn't wanted to be pregnant they would both have stuck like glue! sods law!
......will run the one night stand past hubby, but I doubt he will think it's a goer!]]> Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:55:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472363&title=trying-again-any-advice#472363 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : hahaha, yeah get drunk and have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472326&title=trying-again-any-advice#472326 Author: cuppatea
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Posted: 21 August 2008 at 8:14pm

hahaha, yeah get drunk and have a one night stand, seems to work for a lot of women

I just suggested the being healthy and stuff cos if nothing else it helps you feel that much better in yourself and also feels like you are doing something.

]]> Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:14:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472326&title=trying-again-any-advice#472326 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Hi, already under a specialist,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472118&title=trying-again-any-advice#472118 Author: dotty
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Posted: 21 August 2008 at 3:26pm

Hi, already under a specialist, as had endo, not bad, but thought it was wise. Been taking folic acid for about a year now and I don't think I can eat any healthier, don't drink anymore and have never smoked, I walk, run or bike most days. So god knows! maybe I need to start being bad! ]]> Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:26:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472118&title=trying-again-any-advice#472118 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : I think my mc was a girl and I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472096&title=trying-again-any-advice#472096 Author: cuppatea
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Posted: 21 August 2008 at 3:00pm

I think my mc was a girl and I am now carrying another boy, DH said to me maybe I can only carry boys but who knows really. We didn't do anything to try and get a particular sex. All I would suggest really would be to eat healthy and make sure you are emotionally ready, take folic acid etc and just not stress yourself out about it. If the worse does happen again then you will be referred to a specialist, but its not likely and I really hope it doesn't happen. ]]> Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:00:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=472096&title=trying-again-any-advice#472096 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Mum my is sure the MC she had...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471776&title=trying-again-any-advice#471776 Author: mummy_becks
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Posted: 20 August 2008 at 9:00pm

Mum my is sure the MC she had was a boy, and I am sure the MC I had was a girl. I think she was meant to have girls and I am meant to have boys.

]]> Wed, 20 Aug 2008 21:00:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471776&title=trying-again-any-advice#471776 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : I dunno Dotty, but i can remember...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471762&title=trying-again-any-advice#471762 Author: BusyMum2three
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Posted: 20 August 2008 at 8:52pm

I dunno Dotty, but i can remember my Mum saying something similar to me when I first miscarried 9 years ago. Interesting I have since had two boys, and miscarried again beginning July.

I will be interested to know if I will get my girl next time round ;-) Funnily enough it is something that has always stuck in the back of my head!

I wish you well for your recovery, and for your future TTC'ing :-)

xx]]> Wed, 20 Aug 2008 20:52:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471762&title=trying-again-any-advice#471762 <![CDATA[Trying again, any advice? : Hi, I have just suffered my second...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471401&title=trying-again-any-advice#471401 Author: dotty
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Posted: 20 August 2008 at 2:50pm

Hi, I have just suffered my second mc in 5 months, I got to about 7 weeks with the first and 6 weeks this time round. I have just about finished bleeding but am still getting a few twinges every now and then. Surprisingly I feel ok, not great but ok, better than last time. Keep telling myself that it could be worse. I have not needed D & C with either so thats one positive?! I can take.
I am keen to get trying again but was wondering if anyone had heard of people not being able to hold a certain sex baby? a few people have mentioned it to me and was wondering if anybody else had had better success by changing their baby making times when trying? like holding off till ovulation day for a boy or vis-versa? keen to know if anyone has found anything that works! ]]> Wed, 20 Aug 2008 14:50:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20245&PID=471401&title=trying-again-any-advice#471401