OHbaby! Forums : To My Angel https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 07:33:20 +0000 Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:17:43 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=21129 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[To My Angel : I&#039;m so sorry you&#039;ve...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=506363&title=to-my-angel#506363 Author: Genie
Subject: 21129
Posted: 02 October 2008 at 12:17am

I'm so sorry you've been through all this. Please don't feel you're a failure, you're soo not..there are so many people out there who go through similar. I was one and yes I felt like a failure too, and exactly what you said about the one thing women are supposed to be able to do, I felt like my body had failed me and it was such a hard thing to go through it and then to turn round and beat myself up over it. Hope all goes well for you with the specialist, you never know maybe they will have some simple answers for you. Big hugs, take care :)]]> Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:17:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=506363&title=to-my-angel#506363 <![CDATA[To My Angel : I thought I&#039;d got over most...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=505672&title=to-my-angel#505672 Author: minik8e
Subject: 21129
Posted: 01 October 2008 at 2:29pm

I thought I'd got over most of the feelings, but hearing today my levels have gone back to 3, has gutted me really. I'm sitting here at my desk trying not to cry, and trying not to feel like I'm a failure, as I can't do the one thing women are supposed to do (that sounds so offensive and insulting - I apologise, I just don't know how else to say it). I thought I was prepared for it not to happen, but maybe not as much as I thought. I have a doc appt tomorrow to get the specialist ball rolling, but it doesn't make me feel any better really.]]> Wed, 01 Oct 2008 14:29:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=505672&title=to-my-angel#505672 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Oh Kate I feel so so sorry for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=504357&title=to-my-angel#504357 Author: Limochick
Subject: 21129
Posted: 30 September 2008 at 11:18am

Oh Kate I feel so so sorry for you. I am sending you big hugs and love!!]]> Tue, 30 Sep 2008 11:18:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=504357&title=to-my-angel#504357 <![CDATA[To My Angel : hang in there wee bub!!!! **what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=501651&title=to-my-angel#501651 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 21129
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 8:28am

hang in there wee bub!!!!     


**what a crazy rollercoaster you are riding right now kate!   all the best for next weeks bloods hun ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 08:28:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=501651&title=to-my-angel#501651 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Things are so weird really...I&#039;ve...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=501545&title=to-my-angel#501545 Author: minik8e
Subject: 21129
Posted: 26 September 2008 at 10:16pm

Things are so weird really...I've posted in the Planning thread...my HCG levels are now doubling which is sooooo strange (from 7 on Monday). So I'm thinking maybe twins and lost one....or who knows. More bloods next week to see whether the numbers keep doubling.]]> Fri, 26 Sep 2008 22:16:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=501545&title=to-my-angel#501545 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Oh no, Kate... this is awful news....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=500390&title=to-my-angel#500390 Author: Andie
Subject: 21129
Posted: 25 September 2008 at 8:58pm

Oh no, Kate... this is awful news. Not fair at all. ]]> Thu, 25 Sep 2008 20:58:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=500390&title=to-my-angel#500390 <![CDATA[To My Angel : So sorry to hear bout this hard...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=500084&title=to-my-angel#500084 Author: Emmecat
Subject: 21129
Posted: 25 September 2008 at 5:03pm

So sorry to hear bout this hard time you are going through Kate

You have lots of friends and support on thse boards and I trust you get some answers soon. ((hugs))

]]> Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:03:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=500084&title=to-my-angel#500084 <![CDATA[To My Angel : The bleeding and cramps started...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498251&title=to-my-angel#498251 Author: minik8e
Subject: 21129
Posted: 24 September 2008 at 7:10am

The bleeding and cramps started up again yesterday afternoon. My hcg levels aren't dropping like they're supposed to, so I'm on two daily blood tests for a little while, and the specialist ball will start rolling when they get back to normal. I feel a little better today, but still extremely sore, and emotional as heck. We were playing dominoes at DF's parents last night and I cried cos the game wasn't going right for me. I'm not a big crier, so yeah, I hate feeling like I don't have control of my emotions.]]> Wed, 24 Sep 2008 07:10:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498251&title=to-my-angel#498251 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate Im so sorry to hear your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498194&title=to-my-angel#498194 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:06pm

Kate Im so sorry to hear your sad news ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 22:06:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498194&title=to-my-angel#498194 <![CDATA[To My Angel : So sorry for your loss and I wish...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498094&title=to-my-angel#498094 Author: Bree1977
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:07pm

So sorry for your loss and I wish I could say something that made the pain go away. But I know from my own experience this doesnt happen.
My first MC at 10 weeks, I started spotting and light tummy cramps around 8 weeks, boobs were saw and overnight that stopped. Cramping and came and went, spotting kept going - bright red. Areound 10 weeks had bad cramps kept up all night curled over. A few days later had a big bleed, gush of bright red blood but no clots. Was put into hospital and given medication to bleed everything out. Very very bad cramps and passed lots of clots, after each clot cramping would stop, then start up, pass another clot etc. For my second MC I had a day of tummy cramps - like a line across the bottom of my tummy, this got worse and worse, went to A&E and had bad cramp, bright red bleed and passed a walnut size foetus/clot. This was sent away for testing as I still showed -ve on urine test. My 3rd unconfirmed MC no +ve test urine however 3 days of light cramps and bright red bleeding and a small clot. So I guess from my experience each is different.
Am really thinking for you tonight and for once not just thinking about me and my issues.,... I guess I have been a bit selfesh trying to get me a baby... I really hope things turned out better for you soon.
Hugs x]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 21:07:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498094&title=to-my-angel#498094 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Big Hugs KAte and partner ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498067&title=to-my-angel#498067 Author: AnnC
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 8:43pm

Big Hugs KAte and partner ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:43:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498067&title=to-my-angel#498067 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate, Life is so unfair, nothing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498019&title=to-my-angel#498019 Author: maudie23
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 8:09pm

Kate,

Life is so unfair, nothing can take away from what you are feeling at the moment.
Take every minute you need and remeber that little one. Did you have a name for him?

I have had 3 mc's and they have all been different, never bleeding, however my last was stillborn and I was similar with the bleeding with Anika.
I gave birth to her the I bled very heavy for about 3 hours passed loads of clots. After I passed the clots it was almost over for me.

What you have experience is what they call a completed mc, however make sure you get checked up to make sure your insides are ok.

Again Kate, I am so sorry for you, I hope you can spend sometime with just you and your thoughts.

Sending you lots of love & wishes for the future]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:09:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=498019&title=to-my-angel#498019 <![CDATA[To My Angel : OMG Kate i so thought this was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497897&title=to-my-angel#497897 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 5:40pm

OMG Kate i so thought this was an old post. I am so sorry for your loss

]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 17:40:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497897&title=to-my-angel#497897 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Oh Kate. I&#039;m so sorry. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497528&title=to-my-angel#497528 Author: Mazzy
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 1:15pm

Oh Kate. I'm so sorry. ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 13:15:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497528&title=to-my-angel#497528 <![CDATA[To My Angel : I found with both of mine that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497521&title=to-my-angel#497521 Author: JHS
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 1:13pm

I found with both of mine that once the actual 'pregnancy' as my specialist likes to call it has come out my bleeding was nearly stopped with in an hour or two. This was seen as a good sign as they considered the mc complete and so didn't need a d&c. Depends on if what you passed was just a clot or more than that - I saw mine very clearly. (Sorry TMI I know).
My thoughts are with you, I am so sorry.]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 13:13:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497521&title=to-my-angel#497521 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate in my experience each time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497427&title=to-my-angel#497427 Author: nellybelly
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 12:19pm

Kate in my experience each time can be different. Another friend of mine who has had several MC says this is true for her too. It does seem like a sudden stop to bleeding and cramps though. When do you next see your doc?]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 12:19:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497427&title=to-my-angel#497427 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate, I&#039;m so sorry hun....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497403&title=to-my-angel#497403 Author: BugTeeny
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:52am



Kate, I'm so sorry hun.
I really hope you get your answers soon.
Thinking of you ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 11:52:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497403&title=to-my-angel#497403 <![CDATA[To My Angel : I have a strange TMI question....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497375&title=to-my-angel#497375 Author: minik8e
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:27am

I have a strange TMI question. All of my m/c have been different. This one, I was woken at 4am with indescribable pain and cramps, started bleeding very very heavily at about 6am, passed a large clot at around 8am and since then the bleeding (and cramps) have pretty much stopped. This isn't right is it?

Edited by minik8e]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 11:27:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497375&title=to-my-angel#497375 <![CDATA[To My Angel : I&#039;m so sorry Kate, its just...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497347&title=to-my-angel#497347 Author: caraMel
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:00am

I'm so sorry Kate, its just so unfair that you have to go through this again.
Sending you and DP tons of love and prayers xxxxx]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 11:00:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497347&title=to-my-angel#497347 <![CDATA[To My Angel : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497321&title=to-my-angel#497321 Author: my2angels
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:29am

]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:29:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497321&title=to-my-angel#497321 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate - my thoughts are with you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497298&title=to-my-angel#497298 Author: emz
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:11am

Kate - my thoughts are with you at this terrible time. I hope you get some answers too... life is so unfair sometimes So sorry for your loss hun.]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:11:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497298&title=to-my-angel#497298 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate, I am so sad for you to see...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497293&title=to-my-angel#497293 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:05am

Kate, I am so sad for you to see your post.  No words can fix how you and DF are feeling but my thoughts are with you both.



Edited by kezplanet]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:05:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497293&title=to-my-angel#497293 <![CDATA[To My Angel : oh hun!!!!i&#039;m so sorry!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497276&title=to-my-angel#497276 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:48am

oh hun!!!!    i'm so sorry!!    

]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:48:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497276&title=to-my-angel#497276 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Oh Kate I hope you get answers...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497269&title=to-my-angel#497269 Author: IVFGirl1111
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:44am



Oh Kate I hope you get answers soon x]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:44:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497269&title=to-my-angel#497269 <![CDATA[To My Angel : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497246&title=to-my-angel#497246 Author: surfergirl
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:30am

]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:30:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497246&title=to-my-angel#497246 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Kate hun i feel for you and DF...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497245&title=to-my-angel#497245 Author: ohanlon82
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:29am

Kate hun i feel for you and DF -

You know we are here for you

xxxxxx]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:29:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497245&title=to-my-angel#497245 <![CDATA[To My Angel : oh no Kate! ohhh I don&#039; t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497241&title=to-my-angel#497241 Author: nellybelly
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:23am

oh no Kate! ohhh I don' t understand either it is not fair ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:23:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497241&title=to-my-angel#497241 <![CDATA[To My Angel : awww Kate i am so sorry ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497160&title=to-my-angel#497160 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:55am

awww Kate i am so sorry ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 07:55:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497160&title=to-my-angel#497160 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Minik8e, I am so sorry for your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497153&title=to-my-angel#497153 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:50am

Minik8e, I am so sorry for your loss and sorrow ]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 07:50:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497153&title=to-my-angel#497153 <![CDATA[To My Angel : So sorry for your loss ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497149&title=to-my-angel#497149 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:47am

So sorry for your loss]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 07:47:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497149&title=to-my-angel#497149 <![CDATA[To My Angel : Today I lost you. You were DF&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497121&title=to-my-angel#497121 Author: minik8e
Subject: 21129
Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:19am

Today I lost you. You were DF's little "boy" and my precious angel, so dearly wanted and loved even at such an early time. My heart is breaking and I lie here crying because I can't understand why this keeps happening to us. The physical pain is bearable, the emotional pain is not. You were so so loved and wanted, I can't believe or start to understand why you have left us.

I just don't understand.]]> Tue, 23 Sep 2008 07:19:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21129&PID=497121&title=to-my-angel#497121