OHbaby! Forums : I don’t know what to think https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 07:31:33 +0000 Wed, 05 Nov 2008 15:57:12 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=21230 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Oh that is so sad That poor girl...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=536624&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#536624 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 21230
Posted: 05 November 2008 at 3:57pm

Oh that is so sad That poor girl shouldnt have had to go through that!

I went to school with a couple of girls, they were 13 and 16 with the minds of 4 or 5 year olds. They were very sweet and very nieve(sp?). The man that lived next door to them used to invite the girls over and they would hang out with him, the girls mother knew the man and trusted him.
At school they started to talk to me about how they would have sex and that the man got them to perform oral sex on him etc I was disgusted, I was only 13 myself.
So I told my mum, and she talked to the girls mother. He had been sexual abusing them for months, he would tell them they were going to his "Special Place" and stuff like that.
He got arrested and admitted to it. What a sick B#$$%!!@!

The girls had NO idea that they were doing anything inapropriate, they just...did what he said, and it makes me so sad. He took advantage of them in the worst way possible.]]> Wed, 05 Nov 2008 15:57:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=536624&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#536624 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Shame One of my teachers daughter...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=516718&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#516718 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 21230
Posted: 13 October 2008 at 9:58pm

Shame

One of my teachers daughter had the mental capacity of a wee child. I remember them fighting to have the right to have hysterectomy done. They didnt win, it was against her human rights... but she cant ever look after herself how can she possibly look after a child? The rights of the unborn child need to be taken into account too. That was before depo though.... ]]> Mon, 13 Oct 2008 21:58:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=516718&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#516718 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Aprilfools wrote:Yep Kels it...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=508665&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#508665 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 21230
Posted: 04 October 2008 at 12:31pm

Originally posted by Aprilfools Aprilfools wrote:

Yep Kels it can be pretty tough going dealing with someone who doesn't understand what AF is all about. I used to care for intellectually, physically and mentally disabled people and unfortunately these things can happen. Just because people are disabled doesn't mean they won't experiment sexually.
Please try and be a bit more careful about assuming and labelling something like this as 'disgusting' when the full details haven't been given.


ha tough going?thats an understatement, living with one isnt much fun either.
Perhaps the father was also special needs, which is just as sad, and yes ,your right we dont know all the facts.
I get quite upset at stuff like this, because it reminds me how easily things can happen, and how easily it could happen to my sister , last thing our family needs .
Come to think of it , disgusting isnt the right word, terrifying is .

Edited by caitlynsmygirl]]> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 12:31:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=508665&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#508665 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Yep Kels it can be pretty tough...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=506569&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#506569 Author: Aprilfools
Subject: 21230
Posted: 02 October 2008 at 10:25am

Yep Kels it can be pretty tough going dealing with someone who doesn't understand what AF is all about. I used to care for intellectually, physically and mentally disabled people and unfortunately these things can happen. Just because people are disabled doesn't mean they won't experiment sexually.
Please try and be a bit more careful about assuming and labelling something like this as 'disgusting' when the full details haven't been given.]]> Thu, 02 Oct 2008 10:25:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=506569&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#506569 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : I was thinking the same thing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=506316&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#506316 Author: Kels
Subject: 21230
Posted: 01 October 2008 at 10:40pm

I was thinking the same thing Aprilfools. At my last job I had a selected few young girls from an IHC home who came in for the depo. Their family had consented. These girls were under 16years old with varying degrees of cognitive development. They were given the depo as contraception as they had been very promisicious (with other male residents) and also because they just couldnt cope with periods. They would play in it and have it everywhere. They just didnt understand.

Very very sad about the 12year old and her bubba

 

]]> Wed, 01 Oct 2008 22:40:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=506316&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#506316 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : So sad, I feel awful for all involved...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=505746&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#505746 Author: Aprilfools
Subject: 21230
Posted: 01 October 2008 at 3:34pm

So sad, I feel awful for all involved that they ever found themselves in that situation.

But, how do you know that the father wasn't also a young person with the mind of a 6 year old?? I can't see anything in that article to indicate that she was definitely taken advantage of by someone that's not handicapped in some way themselves.

Edited by Aprilfools]]> Wed, 01 Oct 2008 15:34:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=505746&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#505746 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : MamaPickle wrote:But at 12...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503495&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503495 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 21230
Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:55pm

Originally posted by MamaPickle MamaPickle wrote:

But at 12 it's still not legal to have sex...
So either way the guy is in the wrong.

DH and I had a huge discussion about it yesterday (luckily we were both on the same side of the fence) - it left me feeling very confused and sad.

My cousin (who subsequently died at the hands of her partner) had two kids by the age of 14.
He's in prison, she's dead and the two kids have no idea


oh duh ! i didnt even think of that, shes only 12, so its still rape , hope he gets charged .

Im so sorry to hear of your cousin MP ]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2008 13:55:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503495&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503495 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : This is just awful That poor...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503211&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503211 Author: Zina
Subject: 21230
Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:01am

This is just awful That poor wee girl.]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:01:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503211&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503211 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : OMG I am just lost for words. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503192&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503192 Author: Natalie_G
Subject: 21230
Posted: 29 September 2008 at 10:43am

OMG I am just lost for words. ]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:43:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503192&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503192 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Oh Charly, that&#039;s horrid....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503066&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503066 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 21230
Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:14am

Oh Charly, that's horrid.]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:14:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503066&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503066 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : But at 12 it&#039;s still not...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503054&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503054 Author: BugTeeny
Subject: 21230
Posted: 29 September 2008 at 7:55am

But at 12 it's still not legal to have sex...
So either way the guy is in the wrong.

DH and I had a huge discussion about it yesterday (luckily we were both on the same side of the fence) - it left me feeling very confused and sad.

My cousin (who subsequently died at the hands of her partner) had two kids by the age of 14.
He's in prison, she's dead and the two kids have no idea ]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2008 07:55:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=503054&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#503054 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : six years old....God , would she...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502340&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502340 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 21230
Posted: 28 September 2008 at 12:11am

six years old....God , would she have even been aware what was happening ? i mean ...surely he could get charged with SOMETHING for that right?
If you have sex with a 6 year old , its rape, ..wouldnt it be similar if they were 6 in the mind, even if not in the body ? ]]> Sun, 28 Sep 2008 00:11:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502340&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502340 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : With the intellectual age of a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502337&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502337 Author: kriss
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 11:52pm

With the intellectual age of a 6yr old, i'd also say it was the best thing to terminate. I can't even begin to imagine how the poor girl would cope with being pregnant.. but then also, how would she cope with the abortion? I don't know anything about abortion methods or anything though but at 18wks gestation...

ETA it can't be an easy situation for either her or her family, its a really sad thing

Edited by kriss]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 23:52:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502337&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502337 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : ...Oh Man...I dont know what to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502243&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502243 Author: Roksana
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 9:27pm

...Oh Man...I dont know what to say...thats just disgusting....and sad!!! ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 21:27:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502243&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502243 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : caitlynsmygirl wrote:Poor baby...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502111&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502111 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 7:18pm

Originally posted by caitlynsmygirl caitlynsmygirl wrote:

Poor baby or not if my sister got pregnant (from someone clearly taking advantage of her ) i would hope the courts would rule for an abortion , because i know who would take care of the baby -my parents, who have already got a permanent baby in my sister, they will never be able to experience having an offspring free house ...i dont want them having to raise another child in their old age too.

The whole thing is disgusting and sad


I agree. As sad as this story is bringing a child into the world under these circumstances would not be fair.

Stories like this disgust me and make me sad

Edited by rianna08]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 19:18:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502111&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502111 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : this hits home, my sister is 22...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502061&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502061 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 6:17pm

this hits home, my sister is 22 with the mental age of a 6 year old.
Poor baby or not if my sister got pregnant (from someone clearly taking advantage of her ) i would hope the courts would rule for an abortion , because i know who would take care of the baby -my parents, who have already got a permanent baby in my sister, they will never be able to experience having an offspring free house ...i dont want them having to raise another child in their old age too.

The whole thing is disgusting and sad ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 18:17:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502061&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502061 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : The man who did this should be...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502033&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502033 Author: LJsmum
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 5:28pm

The man who did this should be jailed.
Poor girl how awful poor baby it's not the babies fault. ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 17:28:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502033&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502033 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502022&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502022 Author: Daizy
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 5:00pm

]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 17:00:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=502022&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#502022 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : Oh that is just horrible. Who...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501768&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501768 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 12:26pm

Oh that is just horrible. Who the hell got her pregnant, bad enough that she is 12 but with a mental age of 6 as well. I hope they find him and lock him up. ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 12:26:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501768&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501768 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : It&#039;s a sad world we live...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501663&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501663 Author: arohanui
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 8:52am



It's a sad world we live in huh.... That poor wee girl and her poor wee baby. ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 08:52:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501663&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501663 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : wow!! that makes me sad and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501654&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501654 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 8:32am

wow!!

that makes me sad and angry at the same time!   poor wee thing!

at the baby's father!   ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 08:32:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501654&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501654 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501645&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501645 Author: james
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 8:15am

]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 08:15:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501645&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501645 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501632&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501632 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 7:43am

 ]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 07:43:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501632&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501632 <![CDATA[I don’t know what to think : This story breaks my heart (and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501617&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501617 Author: BugTeeny
Subject: 21230
Posted: 27 September 2008 at 6:26am

This story breaks my heart (and makes me angry), on so many levels.



**eta: click the sad face for the link

Edited by MamaPickle]]> Sat, 27 Sep 2008 06:26:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=21230&PID=501617&title=i-dont-know-what-to-think#501617