https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 14:52:25 +0000 Sat, 10 Jan 2009 14:18:11 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=23131 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=583313&title=advice-please#583313 Author: Oxy
Subject: 23131
Posted: 10 January 2009 at 2:18pm

I to had a miscarriage in feb and im still trying to come to terms with it everytime I think about it. It makes me sad and sometime I even    I think why me why did it have to happen does someone in this world not want me to have a baby ]]> Sat, 10 Jan 2009 14:18:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=583313&title=advice-please#583313 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=568322&title=advice-please#568322 Author: Lee_Jon
Subject: 23131
Posted: 16 December 2008 at 6:53pm

Thanks heaps guys its nice to know that people have been through the same sort of thing and are now expecting, it does give me hope ]]> Tue, 16 Dec 2008 18:53:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=568322&title=advice-please#568322 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=568044&title=advice-please#568044 Author: maudie23
Subject: 23131
Posted: 16 December 2008 at 1:30pm

Lee_Jon,
Sorry you are going through such a sh*t time. I had a still born in May. I started trying right away once I had been given the all clear.
I fell pregnant within 2 months of trying (this time).
My 1st Mc was at 13 weeks, I didn't fall pregnant for 18 months after that. DR wouldn't send me to anyone because I was only 21.
If I were you Hun and this is making you so down, I would see your GP and get a referral to see someone who is more specialised in the Lady areas.
I know just how hard it is when you see people who have a baby & you just so wish that was you.
The day I had Anika I walked out of the hosital & there was a lady sitting there with a smoke in one hand & was pregnant I though to myself, I have just given birth to a Baby who I will never see again & here you are smoking & hurting you wee one. Why did this happen to me.

I think you should just relax ( I know easier said than done) and think just how wonderful it will be once you have fallen pregnant. Positive thinking Hun works wonders.

Take care & don't ever be sorry for talking about how you feel.]]> Tue, 16 Dec 2008 13:30:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=568044&title=advice-please#568044 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567652&title=advice-please#567652 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 23131
Posted: 16 December 2008 at 12:41am

Lee_Jon, I have had a m/c before each of my pregnancies the 1st 2 I conceived reasonably soon afterwards but last year I got thru to 11 1/2 - 12 wks and then m/c ....... so I waited ..... waited but nothing seemed to happen, I did have the knowledge that I had 2 babies but this seemed to be taking a long time.  I was lucky probably to have the girls to keep me busy and stop me thinking about the negative side of things but we did end up conceiving at the same time the next year and the due date was/is exactly the same.  Sorry the story may not be much help to you, and it is easy for an outsider to say don't stress but there is still every chance it will happen for you, just thought I may be able to give you a positive story ]]> Tue, 16 Dec 2008 00:41:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567652&title=advice-please#567652 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567635&title=advice-please#567635 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 23131
Posted: 15 December 2008 at 11:07pm

Thats good you know you are Ov'ing hun. Hopefully once your DH does the SA and that is ruled out they can concentrate on other areas.
I hope you get some answers soon, or a BFP instead ... Come on over to the TTC section if your up to it and join all the other ladies ]]> Mon, 15 Dec 2008 23:07:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567635&title=advice-please#567635 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567358&title=advice-please#567358 Author: Lee_Jon
Subject: 23131
Posted: 15 December 2008 at 6:33pm

Thanks rianna08, I did go and thats when he gave me the blood test to see if I was ov he also said that he has never seen a mc cause infertillaty before, but I think theres a first time for everything, I need to get DH to do a sperm count test but its just getting him to go to the docs!! Once I know theres nothing with him then we can focus on what games my body is playing ]]> Mon, 15 Dec 2008 18:33:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=567358&title=advice-please#567358 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=566687&title=advice-please#566687 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 23131
Posted: 14 December 2008 at 10:44pm

Lee_jon . I know exactly how you feel. I had a MC in July and havent conceived either.

I am in Aus and my Dr will be referring me to a Gynae next month if we dont conceive by then (sorry I cant remember how they do it in NZ after a MC). That will be 6 months after my MC which apparently is the norm here. Can you go to your Dr and ask then to refer you to a specialist? ]]> Sun, 14 Dec 2008 22:44:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=566687&title=advice-please#566687 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=566491&title=advice-please#566491 Author: Lee_Jon
Subject: 23131
Posted: 14 December 2008 at 4:15pm

I had a m/c in feb this year (I was 8 weeks) and I've had no luck conciving (sp?) since I have had a blood test to show that I am propberly ov (docs words) and I dont really know where to go from here. Its so hard seeing other people get pg and have there babies when mine should have been here by now, its even worse when they didnt even want to get pg, its so not fair and I dont think my DH understands why I get so sad over it, I just really dont know what to do anymore

Sorry about the rant and I hope it makes sense]]> Sun, 14 Dec 2008 16:15:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23131&PID=566491&title=advice-please#566491