https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 02:39:28 +0000 Sat, 07 Mar 2009 23:19:39 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=25049 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=631053&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#631053 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 11:19pm

My friend had an abusive partner, he beat the cr*p out of her and went back time and time again , before finally leaving for good .
I asked her once why she kept going back .
This is what she said (not word for word,my memory isnt that good ! but the gist of it )

" because I loved him , and because I thought that I would be the heroine that was able to fix his damaged heart, because I thought that if the man I loved more than anything in the world could treat me like that, then I must deserve it, and because like every relationship , it had its good times, and its bad times , and you fool yourself into putting more emphasis on the good times, and finding excuses for the bad ones "

She left because he hit their son one day , that was what she needed to leave .
She then had a baby to an emotionally abusive man (she thought it would be ok because it wasn't physical abuse, but soon discovered that often the deepest scars are the invisible ones )
and now is in a relationship with a lovely lovely guy who shes just had a daughter with , she has broken the cycle , finally , but it took a lot of courage and strength to do so .
Shes 38 btw, and to most people she looks like a successful well put together woman .

In a nutshell, I agree with Rach . ]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 23:19:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=631053&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#631053 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=631008&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#631008 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 9:41pm

Arghh god I hate reading comments like the ones above its not her thats stupid its him. The reason she went back is because the abuse is obviously a lot deeper than physical and right now for whatever reason she has chosen to be with him. There are a lot of women who stay with men that beat them and saying they are stupid and immature is only going to make them feel even worse and stay even longer.

We don't know the full story I just hope she has a lot of support.]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 21:41:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=631008&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#631008 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630881&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630881 Author: Natalie_G
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 6:47pm

What a jerk Chris Brown is (personally dont like his music).

She is silly for getting back with him, but I can understand why should would lots of women do the same thing.]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 18:47:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630881&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630881 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630776&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630776 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 3:01pm

i havent actually read it but i heard she said 'i cant live without you' and he proposed and they got married..but that doesn't sound right seeing as she ended up charging him..

just wish she had the maturity and self esteem to stay away from him:( ]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 15:01:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630776&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630776 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630751&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630751 Author: james
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 1:56pm

lisa85 wrote: Geez Ike and Tina! Sorry that was horribly bad taste but seriously if' she's silly enough to get back with him after a horrific beating like that it's hard to feel sorry for her. What a creep!

thats what i think]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:56:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630751&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630751 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630736&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630736 Author: lisa85
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 1:26pm

Geez Ike and Tina! Sorry that was horribly bad taste but seriously if' she's silly enough to get back with him after a horrific beating like that it's hard to feel sorry for her.

What a creep!]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:26:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630736&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630736 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630698&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630698 Author: pepsi
Subject: 25049
Posted: 07 March 2009 at 12:36pm

Wow, so I thought the photo was bad, but the police transcript about what happened that night is pretty brutal!

Some details from the news story:

The document says this is what happened-Rihanna read a text message on Brown's cell phone from an ex girlfriend. The couple began fighting, verbally. And then it got ugly, really ugly.

Brown allegedly tried to shove Rihanna out of the car, began punching her even as blood filled her mouth. And then police say he bit her.

Rihanna's mouth was filled with blood as Chris Brown punched her with his right hand while he drove his Lamborghini with his left hand.

I read the full transcript from another site and he was basically punching her repeatedly, choked her until she passed out and left her on the side of the road before driving off... And now they are back together...

New Story]]> Sat, 07 Mar 2009 12:36:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25049&PID=630698&title=update-on-chris-brown-rihanna-incident#630698