OHbaby! Forums : How long does it take? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 13:59:52 +0000 Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:42:55 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=28321 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Oh - thank goodness you have a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756658&title=how-long-does-it-take#756658 Author: littlestar
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 4:42pm

Oh - thank goodness you have a good MW! I'm happy she got things moved up for you.
Look after yourself - its going to be a rough week - but we're all thinking of you.]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:42:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756658&title=how-long-does-it-take#756658 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Big Hugs Lemongirl!!! the crappy...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756647&title=how-long-does-it-take#756647 Author: LouD
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 4:30pm

Big Hugs Lemongirl!!! the crappy things we have to go through to have babies....!! real test on our emotions thats for sure! hang in there hun and all will be a distant memory because you will be right back in the due threads before you know it
]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:30:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756647&title=how-long-does-it-take#756647 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Actually I felt a whole bunch...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756504&title=how-long-does-it-take#756504 Author: lemongirl
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 2:32pm

Actually I felt a whole bunch better after the nurse called me. Summoned up the strength to cancel my scan and call work for some extra time off.]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 14:32:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756504&title=how-long-does-it-take#756504 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : well that&#039;s something at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756488&title=how-long-does-it-take#756488 Author: ElfsMum
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 2:22pm

well that's something at least..... :( ]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 14:22:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756488&title=how-long-does-it-take#756488 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : I think the time lag has to do...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756436&title=how-long-does-it-take#756436 Author: lemongirl
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 1:43pm

I think the time lag has to do with the fact that the missed miscarriage was detected in Australia so I wasn't offically in the system until today.

My midwife came through for me though and had the early pregnancy people on the phone first thing this morning and then again around lunch to say the D&C will be this thursday.]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:43:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756436&title=how-long-does-it-take#756436 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : it&#039;s totally normal to want...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756424&title=how-long-does-it-take#756424 Author: ElfsMum
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 1:22pm

it's totally normal to want it over with:(

I got the first available time which was 5 days later:( seemed like forever and I had no spotting or bleeding at all..just found out at routine scan.. having been through it naturally the next time i was glad i managed to last till the DandC but those 5 days were very very hard *hugs*]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:22:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756424&title=how-long-does-it-take#756424 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Big hugs Is there a reason why...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756417&title=how-long-does-it-take#756417 Author: sarahm
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 1:15pm

Big hugs

Is there a reason why you have to wait? I had spotting for two days had a scan that showed a heartbeat, 2 days later I had a scan in the morning that showed there was no heart beat and had a D and C that afternoon as like kicker said that was what I wanted.  Like the others have said, maybe phone (if youre up to it) and ask for things to happen sooner.

]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:15:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756417&title=how-long-does-it-take#756417 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Hugs lemongirl - I&#039;m so sorry! It...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756403&title=how-long-does-it-take#756403 Author: littlestar
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 1:02pm

Hugs lemongirl - I'm so sorry!
It is different for everyone - so I really can't say how long its going to take. I had the scan which showed all was not quite well then started spotting then clotty bleeding two days later.
Can you maybe ring them and see if you can get in earlier? (although I couldn't talk on the phone without bursting into tears)
Hugs hun - I wish I could make this go faster for you, but all I can do is send hugs and let you know there are a bunch of us thinking of you during this crappy crappy week.]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 13:02:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756403&title=how-long-does-it-take#756403 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : Lemongirl, i started spotting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756373&title=how-long-does-it-take#756373 Author: Kicker
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 12:28pm

Lemongirl, i started spotting on a monday, had scan, referred to epu on the wednesday for a D&C on friday, but started heavily bleeding on the wednesday afternoon. So it all happened fairly quickly.

Second loss i didn't spot until the day of my D&C.

So what i am saying is it is different for everyone, and totally understandable that you want it over and done with quickly. I think for my second loss my mw phoned the epu and told them to book the D&C as this was definately what i wanted. I saw them the next morning to sign forms and had the procedure that afternoon. This could be an option for you rather than waiting over the weekend.

]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:28:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756373&title=how-long-does-it-take#756373 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : awww hunny im sorry your going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756311&title=how-long-does-it-take#756311 Author: Kazzle
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 11:06am

awww hunny im sorry your going through this *big hugs*

and no its not bad that you just want it over with, its a natural reaction to whats going one.
]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:06:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756311&title=how-long-does-it-take#756311 <![CDATA[How long does it take? : I know the fetus is dead but is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756295&title=how-long-does-it-take#756295 Author: lemongirl
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 10:45am

I know the fetus is dead but is it bad I just want it to be over with?

I've only passed a few splodges of blood here and there over the last several days. I have an appointment at the early pregnancy unit on Thursday which seems like forever.. and I might not get to do a D&C till next week.

I just want to get this over with. ]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 10:45:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28321&PID=756295&title=how-long-does-it-take#756295