OHbaby! Forums : Am I wrong to be annoyed? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 14:07:20 +0000 Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:15:00 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=28363 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Hi Lemongirl This is my first...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762634&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762634 Author: NickyJ
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Posted: 01 September 2009 at 2:15pm

Hi Lemongirl

This is my first ever post but friends told me that the forums were useful....

I had my 1st dnc a week ago and it was my 2nd miscarraige as 1st was natural and I fully needed my partner there for support and would have felt hurst and angry if he did not want to come.

Like you i feel really angry at the moment and am trying to find strategies to help with it, i have been walking a lot and i have a couple of close friends whom have checked in with me every couple of days to see how im going which is nice.

I hope it all went ok with you and he has since been more supportive.]]> Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:15:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762634&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762634 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Stupid protestor! I&#039;m glad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762305&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762305 Author: ISpyCharlie
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Posted: 01 September 2009 at 9:49am

Stupid protestor! I'm glad you gave him a piece of your mind.

I hope your doing o.k

]]> Tue, 01 Sep 2009 09:49:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762305&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762305 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : :( hugs...and ugh at the protester:(...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762279&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762279 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 28363
Posted: 01 September 2009 at 9:34am

:( hugs...and ugh at the protester:( ]]> Tue, 01 Sep 2009 09:34:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762279&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762279 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Lemongirl and MBandbub I am so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762141&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762141 Author: Shezzey
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Posted: 31 August 2009 at 11:05pm

Lemongirl and MBandbub I am so very sorry to hear of your losses.  Sending you both big hugs

]]> Mon, 31 Aug 2009 23:05:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=762141&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#762141 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Just read your post - so glad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758885&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758885 Author: MB1970
Subject: 28363
Posted: 27 August 2009 at 9:14pm

Just read your post - so glad he stepped up for you xx

And go you with the protesters!!]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 21:14:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758885&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758885 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Hi lemongirl Hope things went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758879&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758879 Author: MB1970
Subject: 28363
Posted: 27 August 2009 at 9:11pm

Hi lemongirl
Hope things went well today and you're doing ok - jsut wanted to say you have every right to be cross! My bub's dad can't come up to see me cause he doesn't have a wof on his ute - never mind i'm in the process of m/c-ing. Talk about hopeless. Am so cross and dissappointed in him! They just dont seem to get it. ]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 21:11:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758879&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758879 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Hi all, I&#039;m feeling a lot...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758828&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758828 Author: lemongirl
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Posted: 27 August 2009 at 8:46pm

Hi all,
I'm feeling a lot better after the D&C.

I had to walk past an anti-abortion protester on the way to the hosptial complete with pictures of fetus with the words 'thanks mum' for me to look at. Instead of being upset I went absolutely ballistic at him for not even bothering to consider that there were likely a fair few women walking into greenlane with dead but very-much wanted babies in their bellies who didn't need that kind of sh*t in the darkest hours. Some people really have no idea.

DP came and got me after numerous frantic calls to my cell and I'm glad he did.]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 20:46:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758828&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758828 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : ugh i would be soooooo mad too:(...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758403&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758403 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 28363
Posted: 27 August 2009 at 1:51pm

ugh i would be soooooo mad too:( thinking of you today! ]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:51:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758403&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758403 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : You are not wrong to be angry,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758375&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758375 Author: ISpyCharlie
Subject: 28363
Posted: 27 August 2009 at 1:19pm

You are not wrong to be angry, you need his support, whether he wants to run away and bury himself at work or not!]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:19:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758375&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758375 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Hi Lemongirl will be thinking...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758170&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758170 Author: lillibit
Subject: 28363
Posted: 27 August 2009 at 9:53am

Hi Lemongirl will be thinking of you today hope it all goes well and you don't have to wait around at the hospital for too long. ]]> Thu, 27 Aug 2009 09:53:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758170&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758170 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Aww hun totally understandable...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758013&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758013 Author: WestiesGirl
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Posted: 26 August 2009 at 10:45pm

Aww hun totally understandable to be upset I do wonder though if this is his way of coping with your loss??

My thoughts are with you tomorrow ]]> Wed, 26 Aug 2009 22:45:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=758013&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#758013 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : Oh lemongirl, I would be angry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=757934&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#757934 Author: girly_girl
Subject: 28363
Posted: 26 August 2009 at 9:16pm

Oh lemongirl, I would be angry too. Sending you BIG cyber hugs xxx]]> Wed, 26 Aug 2009 21:16:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=757934&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#757934 <![CDATA[Am I wrong to be annoyed? : I told DP about my appointment...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=757929&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#757929 Author: lemongirl
Subject: 28363
Posted: 26 August 2009 at 9:13pm

I told DP about my appointment and subsquent D&C a few days ago. I thought he was coming with me as usually I will say if doesn't need to be there.

My D&C is tomorrow and he says to me tonight 'oh I have to be at work early tomorrow.' I am so angry with him. He seems to find time to leave work early to pick up his daughter a couple of nights a week, he'll take time off to show up at lawyers meetings for his divorce but for something as huge as this he leaves me alone and basically says I'll pick you up when you are done.

God I'm so angry right now I could scream
]]> Wed, 26 Aug 2009 21:13:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28363&PID=757929&title=am-i-wrong-to-be-annoyed#757929