OHbaby! Forums : Feeling down about TTC https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 20:13:11 +0000 Mon, 19 Apr 2010 10:31:23 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=32446 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Thanks for all the support ladies...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=1000104&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#1000104 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 32446
Posted: 19 April 2010 at 10:31am

Thanks for all the support ladies
Sorry I haven't popped back in sooner.

Feeling ok now, had a big chat with DP about TTC last night and how he feels now the 3 year mark has been hit. He didn't say much, I get the impression he doesn't want to think about it too much so prefers just to coast along, so all good... I'm ok with that. Got to remove yaself from it somehow so it doesn't get too much aye.

Hey AM! Yeah I was on treasures a couple of years ago. Your username definitely rings a bell and I know we've talked before it's just not all clicking at the same time lol.
The waiting sucks!    ]]> Mon, 19 Apr 2010 10:31:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=1000104&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#1000104 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : thank you kobec, i thought i&#039;d...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=989289&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#989289 Author: angelmouse
Subject: 32446
Posted: 06 April 2010 at 7:27pm

thank you kobec, i thought i'd got through the grieving a few months ago but not really, like you say it's always there. and you think perhaps this month will be different but it's not. i've heard it all - "relax and it'll happen", "as soon as you give up it'll happen", "go on a holiday". i've done it all and never changed the outcome. i'm trying to stay positive but, well you know how hard that is. we'll finally qualify for ivf in a year, then another year on the waiting list. i'll be 38 ]]> Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:27:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=989289&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#989289 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Hey anglemouse hang in there....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=989041&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#989041 Author: kobec
Subject: 32446
Posted: 06 April 2010 at 2:47pm

Hey anglemouse hang in there. We were also trying for four years and it is a really long time.....No one should have to go thru this. And it is really hard to just turn off since wanting to have a child is inbuilt in us women. All the best and I really hope your get your BFP...]]> Tue, 06 Apr 2010 14:47:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=989041&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#989041 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : hi wishin41, were you on Treasures...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=988109&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#988109 Author: angelmouse
Subject: 32446
Posted: 05 April 2010 at 1:03pm

hi wishin41,
were you on Treasures also? I'm in the same situation, TTC our first for 4 years... every day is different, some days i cry, other's i don't give a sh$t anymore and think of the positives of not getting that elusive BFP.]]> Mon, 05 Apr 2010 13:03:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=988109&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#988109 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Big wishin41.As the girls have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=980292&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#980292 Author: Flipsta
Subject: 32446
Posted: 26 March 2010 at 1:20pm

Big wishin41.   As the girls have said, this is not an easy journey and a few of us have been going through a tough time with it all recently.

It is great you are getting it off your chest hun as that really does help.

We are all here if you need someone to vent to ok. Take care sweetie and try to keep that chin up but also remember to let it all out when you need to ]]> Fri, 26 Mar 2010 13:20:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=980292&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#980292 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Big hugs to you wishin41! This...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=979979&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#979979 Author: anon12345
Subject: 32446
Posted: 26 March 2010 at 8:42am

Big hugs to you wishin41! This is not an easy journey to walk and I am so sorry you are feeling down with it all right now. Three years is a long time and I am sure you never thought it would get to this point and still have empty arms and a heavy heart. Feel and vent all you need as we all care and understand. I wish you all the best with getting to your IVF cycle and trust all goes smoothly from here with a precious baby just around the corner. ]]> Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:42:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=979979&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#979979 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Awww thanks... yeah I am feeling...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978775&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978775 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 32446
Posted: 25 March 2010 at 9:32am

Awww thanks... yeah I am feeling better after that vent for sure! Now I could possibly be Oing... I wish I knew what my body was up to *sigh*

Hope you two are doing well

]]> Thu, 25 Mar 2010 09:32:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978775&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978775 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Sorry Wishin to hear you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978773&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978773 Author: Bee1981
Subject: 32446
Posted: 25 March 2010 at 9:31am

Sorry Wishin to hear you're feelin down about things right now. A lot of us girls in the CPP thread are feeling exactly the same right now, maybe it's a combination of the TTC journey and coming into a cold yukky winter or something. We just got to the 18months mark with TTC and it was too much for me as well - I had a big rant to my CPP girls the other day and it helped - it's good to get it off your chest sometimes.
I guess all we can do is try our best to stay positive and pray that someday we'll have our precious little bubbas ]]> Thu, 25 Mar 2010 09:31:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978773&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978773 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Awwww &#039;s Sara, Ive only...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978549&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978549 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 9:59pm

Awwww 's Sara, Ive only just seen this thread. I hope having a vent about it helped, sometimes thats all we need to do and we feel abit better about infertility. Thinking of ya hun so hang in there ]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 21:59:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978549&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978549 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Awww hugs Wishin, I think from...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978334&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978334 Author: asicsgal
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 7:01pm

Awww hugs Wishin, I think from memory we were in the ttc threads for a while, I normally hang out in the clomid pill poppers section now. It is such a roller coaster of emotions. I saw your thread about implantation bleeding and thought you'd wandered off to the due threads, I am really sorry to hear it didn't turn out positively. I had such high hopes for you, I really hope you manage to get your bfp before you have to go down the IVF route.
I think DP's /Dh's can't walk in our shoes either, they share the journey but we are the ones that make sure we BD at O time and then have the excruitiating 2ww.
Hugs hun and feel free to vent any time, some times we just need a good rant and there's no better place for it. ]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 19:01:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978334&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978334 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Thanks Bombshell and Ginger I&#039;ve...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978261&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978261 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 5:43pm

Thanks Bombshell and Ginger

I've just got a nearly positive OPK after stabbing/aching pain by my R) hip all day... I'm starting to get more frustrated!]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 17:43:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978261&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978261 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Hugs from here too....its not...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978200&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978200 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 4:26pm

Hugs from here too....its not easy thats for sure...and hubbys can never quite know how we are feeling....

]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:26:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=978200&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#978200 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Hugs wishin - it&#039;s a hard...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977775&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977775 Author: ginger
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 10:48am

Hugs wishin - it's a hard road ]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 10:48:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977775&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977775 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Thanks girls I hope it comes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977708&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977708 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 9:45am

Thanks girls

I hope it comes to an end soon too, I'm over the waiting! lol. I felt so much better last night after posting that - haven't even told DP how I'm feeling, he's got so much going on at the mo.

]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 09:45:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977708&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977708 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Vent when you need to hun. I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977553&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977553 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 32446
Posted: 24 March 2010 at 12:44am


Vent when you need to hun. I so hope your BFP is just around the corner ]]> Wed, 24 Mar 2010 00:44:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977553&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977553 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : hun, I really hope your journey...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977528&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977528 Author: noodle
Subject: 32446
Posted: 23 March 2010 at 10:32pm

hun, I really hope your journey comes to an end soon! ]]> Tue, 23 Mar 2010 22:32:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977528&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977528 <![CDATA[Feeling down about TTC : Hi all... Wasn&#039;t sure where...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977512&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977512 Author: VioletStar
Subject: 32446
Posted: 23 March 2010 at 10:11pm

Hi all...

Wasn't sure where to put this, but just felt like venting a bit...

We are coming up 3 years TTC next month and over the last couple of days it's really hit me and am feeling really down about it.
Had a bit of hope last week when I thought we got our BFP but it turned out to just be a BFN...

I have about another 12 or so kgs left to lose to be the right BMI for us to be put on the waiting list for IVF... which is another years wait.
Just seems like it's going to be never ending! ]]> Tue, 23 Mar 2010 22:11:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=32446&PID=977512&title=feeling-down-about-ttc#977512