OHbaby! Forums : Again :-( https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 05:54:55 +0000 Sun, 06 Jun 2010 05:15:13 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=33789 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy, Was so sorry to read of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1054465&title=again#1054465 Author: Blondes_Away
Subject: 33789
Posted: 06 June 2010 at 5:15am

Appy,

Was so sorry to read of your loss It's just not fair. Sending you lots of strength.]]> Sun, 06 Jun 2010 05:15:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1054465&title=again#1054465 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy, I&#039;m obviously really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1052504&title=again#1052504 Author: tischler
Subject: 33789
Posted: 03 June 2010 at 8:05pm

Appy, I'm obviously really slow at catching up, the girls on the IVF chat thread led me here ...

and more of them. Such sad news for you both to be dealing with. TTC can be so cruel, and our reduced chances with IVF just seem to make it more so.

I hope you are taking lots of time to grieve before you continue on with the journey. To have a frozen emby is bittersweet - make sure you do a FET when you feel ready emotionally and physically.

Thinking of you xx]]> Thu, 03 Jun 2010 20:05:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1052504&title=again#1052504 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh hun I am so sorry, I cant believe...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1051521&title=again#1051521 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 33789
Posted: 03 June 2010 at 8:11am

Oh hun I am so sorry, I cant believe this has happened. Hugs to you both!]]> Thu, 03 Jun 2010 08:11:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1051521&title=again#1051521 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh Appy I am so so sorry for your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050877&title=again#1050877 Author: jem
Subject: 33789
Posted: 02 June 2010 at 3:21pm

Oh Appy I am so so sorry for your loss. Life can be soo unfair at times. Big to you and your Dh.]]> Wed, 02 Jun 2010 15:21:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050877&title=again#1050877 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh, I&#039;m so, so sorry. It...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050497&title=again#1050497 Author: Hopes
Subject: 33789
Posted: 02 June 2010 at 10:46am

Oh, I'm so, so sorry. It just isn't fair, and I wish I had words to say how much I wish this hadn't happened to you. ]]> Wed, 02 Jun 2010 10:46:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050497&title=again#1050497 <![CDATA[Again :-( : I&#039;m so so sorry Appy ,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050229&title=again#1050229 Author: Ceres
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:44pm

I'm so so sorry Appy , no words exist for how unfair this is. You and your DH are in my thoughts.]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 22:44:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050229&title=again#1050229 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Jax..I said it in the other thread,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050217&title=again#1050217 Author: minik8e
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:15pm

Jax..I said it in the other thread, but huge massive for you - this was supposed to be your time. I will be thinking of you, and wish you all the luck in the world.]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 22:15:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050217&title=again#1050217 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy, you have been nothing but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050214&title=again#1050214 Author: minxynzl
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:11pm

Appy, you have been nothing but a positive lght here for me, always supportive and encouraging and always there to help me along. Likeeveryone else here, I wish so much that I could change this or ease your pain in some way.
We'e here for you in any way we can be. Take care my luv, you WILL be a mother, I can feel it. ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 22:11:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050214&title=again#1050214 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh honey . . . I haven&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050124&title=again#1050124 Author: Nightingale
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:50pm

Oh honey . . . I haven't been posting on these boards since our failed IVF cycle as I didn't have much to contribute as we are back to waiting I am so sorry to read of your m/c babe It's just not fair. I hope you and DH are finding comfort in each other and all the best for your FET in a month or so ((((BIG HUG))))]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:50:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050124&title=again#1050124 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Thanks again for all your kind...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050108&title=again#1050108 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:35pm

Thanks again for all your kind words you are all the best xx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:35:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050108&title=again#1050108 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Really sorry to hear that as I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050101&title=again#1050101 Author: sarahd
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:30pm

Really sorry to hear that as I know you've had a few miscarriages as I have.

Hope you feel better to give it all another go at some stage.]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:30:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050101&title=again#1050101 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy sweetheart I am so terribly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050065&title=again#1050065 Author: Bella24
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:09pm

Appy sweetheart I am so terribly sorry to read of your news, its cruel and not fair! Sending much to you and your DH at this sad time. Know that I am thinking of you and am here if you want to talk. Sending you huge hugs sweets love Bella]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:09:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1050065&title=again#1050065 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy....I am so sorry My heart...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049997&title=again#1049997 Author: Shezzey
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:25pm

Appy.... I am so sorry      My heart goes out to you.  Sending you hugs

]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:25:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049997&title=again#1049997 <![CDATA[Again :-( : There are no words that can take...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049990&title=again#1049990 Author: anon12345
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:22pm

There are no words that can take away your pain, nothing we can do to change what you are going through and as others have said to say this is unfair simply does not show how wrong this all is. Our hearts break for you, our tears are flowing freely and we want you to know we care and are here in anyway we can be. You and DH are in our thoughts and prayers, we trust that as the days pass you will be able to find the strength you need to process all you are going through. More than anything I wish you all the success with getting your much wanted bubs. ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:22:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049990&title=again#1049990 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh Appy I am so very very sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049989&title=again#1049989 Author: tarns
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:21pm

Oh Appy I am so very very sorry to hear your news...take care... ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:21:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049989&title=again#1049989 <![CDATA[Again :-( : ohhhh Appy! So sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049973&title=again#1049973 Author: 2_ns_lol
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:10pm

ohhhh Appy!
So sorry to hear the news..... Nothing I can say can take your pain away, but please know my thoughts are with you ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:10:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049973&title=again#1049973 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy just posted in the other...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049930&title=again#1049930 Author: Happygal
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:19pm

Appy just posted in the other thread to you as just heard your sad news and Im just so gutted for you.. After all you had been through.. Please know we are all thinking of you and hope you will get through this xx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 18:19:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049930&title=again#1049930 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh Appy I have just heard the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049914&title=again#1049914 Author: asicsgal
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:04pm

Oh Appy I have just heard the news. I am so gutted for you!!!!! To say things are unfair just doesn't cut it really. Huge hugs to you and your DH. Never give up hun, it's such a hard journey but you will get your bubba.
xxxxxx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 18:04:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049914&title=again#1049914 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh Appy I&#039;m so so sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049895&title=again#1049895 Author: Bee1981
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:46pm

Oh Appy I'm so so sorry this wasn't meant to happen. This journey is so unfair no one should have to go through it. I am really sorry. Take care hun ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:46:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049895&title=again#1049895 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy, I am so very, very sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049853&title=again#1049853 Author: Parki
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:20pm

Appy, I am so very, very sorry to hear this.
I hope you & DH are looking after each other.
Things just aren't fair sometimes.

Super strength, super huge hugs to you lady!
xxx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:20:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049853&title=again#1049853 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Thanks girls for your support,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049826&title=again#1049826 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 4:59pm

Thanks girls for your support, reading your posts does make me but they also make me Its nice to know there is such a caring community at oh baby, and I know one day soon we will get our bubba. Whilst that doesn't make me feel any better today, I know in a few days I will feel better and start thinking about our next move. xxx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:59:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049826&title=again#1049826 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Awwww Appy, I&#039;m so sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049741&title=again#1049741 Author: nicolaann
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:53pm

Awwww Appy, I'm so sorry to hear this. Love and hugs to you and your dh My thoughts are with you both!]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:53:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049741&title=again#1049741 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy I&#039;m so so sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049718&title=again#1049718 Author: MindyW
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:41pm

Appy I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss I'm not really sure what I can say to help take some of your pain away because I know that it wouldnt take it away anyway! Take care hun, and my thoughts are with you and your DH]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:41:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049718&title=again#1049718 <![CDATA[Again :-( : oh Appy I am so sorry. Take care...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049629&title=again#1049629 Author: frankie
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:47pm

oh Appy I am so sorry. Take care and I hope you and your DH are coping okay (as much as you can). So sorry :(]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:47:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049629&title=again#1049629 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Oh my gosh Appy, that is terrible...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049616&title=again#1049616 Author: KH25
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:40pm

Oh my gosh Appy, that is terrible news    I am so upset for you    As you and I know, there is nothing I can say to help but please know that I am thinking of you and if this is the way it's meant to be then hopefully it isn't a long drawn out process for you    Take care hun xx]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:40:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049616&title=again#1049616 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Aww Jax Im so so sorry ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049601&title=again#1049601 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:33pm

Aww Jax Im so so sorry ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:33:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049601&title=again#1049601 <![CDATA[Again :-( : awww chick! i&#039;m so so sorry!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049558&title=again#1049558 Author: noodle
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:11pm

awww chick! i'm so so sorry!!! ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:11:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049558&title=again#1049558 <![CDATA[Again :-( : Appy2 am so sorry to hear your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049531&title=again#1049531 Author: Alison
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:57pm

Appy2 am so sorry to hear your news, all the best with your frozen embie, and take care for yourselves XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 13:57:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049531&title=again#1049531 <![CDATA[Again :-( : I have just copied and pasted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049516&title=again#1049516 Author: mylilmosaic
Subject: 33789
Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:47pm

I have just copied and pasted this from my due in thread as I wanted to let all you lovely girls over here know what has happened. Hope you all don't mind me copying and pasting.

Hi girls

Well unfortunately I have not such good news, my hcg levels were doubling great for the first three bloods taken but the fourth one last Friday showed they were no longer doubling. FAH called us in for a scan to see whats happening and unfortunately no heartbeat only an eggsack and fetal pole measuring 6 weeks. It should measure 7.5 weeks and there should be a heartbeat.

So as some of you who know me can imagine we are quiet guttered, this journey just seems neverending

We will take time to recollect ourselves and let nature take its course, hopefully. And then we still have one frozen embie and hopefully that one will be more successful.

Goodluck with your pregnancies and I hope and pray that I am the last in this thread to post of a m/c.

Thanks to everyone for their support and excitement for us in this pregnancy xxx

We have to wait one cycle before we can have our frozen embie put back in the following cycle, so dh and I are going to focus on weight loss and getting fit to try and give the frozen embie the best possible chance.

Man getting older sucks, I keep wondering whether it is the age of my eggs that is the problem, but dh said maybe its the age of his sperm too, arghhh, who knows ]]> Tue, 01 Jun 2010 13:47:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=33789&PID=1049516&title=again#1049516