OHbaby! Forums : Finally coming to terms with mc https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 12:34:18 +0000 Sat, 25 Sep 2010 08:19:43 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=35563 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : Thank you for your messages....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1161758&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1161758 Author: newme
Subject: 35563
Posted: 25 September 2010 at 8:19am

Thank you for your messages. My family is back to full health, and I personally feel like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders. No longer searching for answers is a relief.]]> Sat, 25 Sep 2010 08:19:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1161758&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1161758 <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : When I was watching Zoe playing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1161734&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1161734 Author: Buttersmum
Subject: 35563
Posted: 25 September 2010 at 6:37am

When I was watching Zoe playing on the floor the other day I realised to myself that I lost my first little one so that I could be blessed with the daughter I have now and that gave me some peace

 

I also believe that the little one is up there looking after Zoe and hopefully guiding her in the right direction

 

I am a strong believer too that things happen for a reason.  Sometimes it just takes a while to figure that reason out.

 

Hope all is well with your family now and best wishes for the birth of your next wee one

]]> Sat, 25 Sep 2010 06:37:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1161734&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1161734 <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : I&#039;m so glad you have found...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143553&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143553 Author: Bobsta
Subject: 35563
Posted: 03 September 2010 at 8:07pm

I'm so glad you have found that peaceful place and have accepted it. It's nice to get that feeling after all the grief. I'm a big believer in souls so if you feel that it's the same soul coming back to you, you are probably right ]]> Fri, 03 Sep 2010 20:07:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143553&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143553 <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : Glad you are coming to terms with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143120&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143120 Author: babygiraffe
Subject: 35563
Posted: 03 September 2010 at 12:33pm

Glad you are coming to terms with things Hila, its a hard old road isn't it. I told my DH that one day when we have a baby I think I will understand why I had to experience these miscarriages. Everything happens for a reason, I just dont know why this had to happen yet.
I have been told by a spiritual type person (whatever you want to call them) that my wee soul keeps trying to come back. A wee boy apparently. I take all that stuff with a grain of salt but it does make my heart warm.
Take care, I hope you are enjoying your pg and everything goes well for you ]]> Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:33:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143120&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143120 <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : Hugs hun ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143108&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143108 Author: littlestar
Subject: 35563
Posted: 03 September 2010 at 12:19pm

Hugs hun ]]> Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:19:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1143108&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1143108 <![CDATA[Finally coming to terms with mc : Hi all I have been a lurker in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1142885&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1142885 Author: newme
Subject: 35563
Posted: 03 September 2010 at 8:34am

Hi all

I have been a lurker in this thread since miscarrying on New Years Eve. Since then I have really struggled with the loss, and even though I am pregnant again now, it hasn't actually lessened my grief for the baby I lost.

The due date for the baby I lost was September 1st, and as the date approached I felt very very sad. But my husband has been extremely ill with swine flu, and developed complications and was actually hospitalised yesterday, and my two year old is sick. So I was sitting in hospital thinking, man, this sucks, so sad cos of the baby (but still very very happy and grateful for the healthy bub I am carrying), worried sick about DH, worried about my poor sick son, who is being looked after by someone else when he is sick.   Then I thought, imagine if I hadn't miscarried, and I was having a baby now, I would have to labour and birth without DH, my son would have to stay with someone else for days (and he never stayed a single night apart from me), and then when I went home I would have to look after DH, DS plus a newborn. I just couldn't do that.

So I have finally made peace with what happened. For the first time I think maybe there was a reason, and this may sound a bit crazy, but I feel like maybe it is the same little soul that I am carrying again now, just coming at a time that is going to work for us.

I guess this post is just part of the healing process, and full acceptance of what has happened.]]> Fri, 03 Sep 2010 08:34:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=35563&PID=1142885&title=finally-coming-to-terms-with-mc#1142885