OHbaby! Forums : Devastated https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 07:44:55 +0000 Thu, 24 Feb 2011 15:33:20 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=38106 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Devastated : So sorry hun... Huge hugs and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1274166&title=devastated#1274166 Author: SnuggleBear
Subject: 38106
Posted: 24 February 2011 at 3:33pm

So sorry hun... Huge hugs and lots of love....]]> Thu, 24 Feb 2011 15:33:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1274166&title=devastated#1274166 <![CDATA[Devastated : so sorry hun ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273814&title=devastated#1273814 Author: pikelets
Subject: 38106
Posted: 23 February 2011 at 10:01pm

   so sorry hun ]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2011 22:01:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273814&title=devastated#1273814 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh no Princess Bubs, I just popped...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273435&title=devastated#1273435 Author: Jacobsmumma
Subject: 38106
Posted: 23 February 2011 at 12:47pm

Oh no Princess Bubs, I just popped in and saw this message from you!  It's so so so so sad that this has happened to you again, I've got tears in my eyes for you, it's just not fair!!!!!!  

Even tho we are strangers in real life, you were there for me when I had my 1st mc a few weeks ago, so I want to return the kindness you showed me.  If there's anything at all I can do for you, even to pop over for coffee and cake, please please please let me know.  I'll drop everything at a minutes notice.

Big hugs and love to you xoxoxoxoxox

]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2011 12:47:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273435&title=devastated#1273435 <![CDATA[Devastated : Thank you everyone for your beautiful...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273326&title=devastated#1273326 Author: Princess_Bubs
Subject: 38106
Posted: 23 February 2011 at 9:51am

Thank you everyone for your beautiful words of support, it means more than words can say.

Yesterday was a very hard day, Not just for me but also for everyone in Christchurch which has been so so sad to watch - my heart goes out to everyone there.

Yesterday went as well as possible, I was recommended to go private this time, and I was so well looked after. I was in hospital for 10 hours so it was a long day, but I can't say enough about how lovely all the staff were.

I am so sad to be back in this thread and I can't quite believe it, but if last year taught me anything, it's the time is a great healer. I'm going to stay off work til next week and be very kind to myself.

Df and my loved ones have been amazing, and so have all you ladies - I really appreciate all the lovely messages. Thank you ever so much.

All I can do is hope and pray that for me it's third time lucky xx]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2011 09:51:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273326&title=devastated#1273326 <![CDATA[Devastated : Huge huge hugs Princessbubs...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273114&title=devastated#1273114 Author: SophieD
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:10pm

Huge huge hugs Princessbubs
absolutely devastated that you have to go through that again love
]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 21:10:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273114&title=devastated#1273114 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh PB I am so sorry to hear about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273109&title=devastated#1273109 Author: Kellyfer
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:06pm

Oh PB I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It's just not fair.
My thoughts are with you ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 21:06:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273109&title=devastated#1273109 <![CDATA[Devastated : Aww honey it breaks my heart to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273105&title=devastated#1273105 Author: lostAmber
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:03pm

Aww honey it breaks my heart to read that, I am so sorry for your loss, I know words don't offer much in the way of consolation but I really do feel for you. I lost two bubbies before Olivia and was so angry with my body for failing me. Seek help and support, allow yourself to grieve, but don't give up. Big hugs beautiful, we're all here for you *kiss*]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 21:03:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273105&title=devastated#1273105 <![CDATA[Devastated : My love I am so very sorry! I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273095&title=devastated#1273095 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:56pm

My love I am so very sorry! I am so very, very, very sorry!!!!!]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 20:56:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273095&title=devastated#1273095 <![CDATA[Devastated : i am so completely gutted to read...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273092&title=devastated#1273092 Author: Lulu27
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:54pm

i am so completely gutted to read this PB :( ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 20:54:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1273092&title=devastated#1273092 <![CDATA[Devastated : PB I&#039;m so sorry for your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272991&title=devastated#1272991 Author: dneyn
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 7:42pm

PB I'm so sorry for your loss hun! I can't even begin to understand what you are going through.]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 19:42:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272991&title=devastated#1272991 <![CDATA[Devastated : PB its so sad, I am so sorry to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272595&title=devastated#1272595 Author: Orca1
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 1:20pm

PB its so sad, I am so sorry to hear your news. ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 13:20:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272595&title=devastated#1272595 <![CDATA[Devastated : I&#039;m so sorry Princess Bubs...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272389&title=devastated#1272389 Author: shadowfeet
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:52am

I'm so sorry Princess Bubs

]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:52:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272389&title=devastated#1272389 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh no! I am sooo sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272388&title=devastated#1272388 Author: heaf3
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:51am

Oh no! I am sooo sorry to hear that PB Hugest of huge hugs coming your way. Thinking of you today sweets xxx]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:51:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272388&title=devastated#1272388 <![CDATA[Devastated : Take care PB, you are a gorgeous...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272378&title=devastated#1272378 Author: babygiraffe
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:41am

Take care PB, you are a gorgeous girl and you will get your little bundle of joy one day soon. I guess for some of us the journey to motherhood is not as straight forward as for others. I have no doubts in my heart that all the pain and sadness some of us have to go through will be worth it in the end.

Take care and let us know how you are. I wish I was closer, I'd come and have a coffee with you ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:41:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272378&title=devastated#1272378 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh PB! I&#039;m so heartbroken...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272320&title=devastated#1272320 Author: T_Rex
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:44am

Oh PB! I'm so heartbroken for you

I'm so sorry you have to go through this again ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 08:44:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272320&title=devastated#1272320 <![CDATA[Devastated : :( Massive hugs to you chick.....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272291&title=devastated#1272291 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:06am

:( Massive hugs to you chick..

I've had a missed mc and a natural mc too..and *hugs* it's just so heartbreaking.. ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 08:06:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272291&title=devastated#1272291 <![CDATA[Devastated : I&#039;m so, so sorry hun. Life...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272248&title=devastated#1272248 Author: queenbean
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 5:16am

I'm so, so sorry hun. Life can be so cruel. Big hugs ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 05:16:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272248&title=devastated#1272248 <![CDATA[Devastated : PB Im so sorry for you loss hun...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272230&title=devastated#1272230 Author: WestiesGirl
Subject: 38106
Posted: 22 February 2011 at 12:12am

PB Im so sorry for you loss hun

My thoughts will be with you tomorrow ]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2011 00:12:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272230&title=devastated#1272230 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh Princess bubs, huge hugs, if...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272217&title=devastated#1272217 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 11:21pm

Oh Princess bubs, huge hugs, if it helps to talk about it, do, there are listening ears out there.]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 23:21:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272217&title=devastated#1272217 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh Princess Bubs, I am so very,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272189&title=devastated#1272189 Author: caraMel
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 10:05pm

Oh Princess Bubs, I am so very, very sorry.
That's just so unfair.
Sending you lots of love and hugs, I'll be thinking of you hun xx]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 22:05:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272189&title=devastated#1272189 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh no, that&#039;s awful news,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272163&title=devastated#1272163 Author: whitewave
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 9:23pm

Oh no, that's awful news, Princess_Bubs! Its horrible enough to experience once, that's so not fair that's happened again.
Big big hugs, hope the D & C goes smoothly and the physical and emotional recovery doesn't take too long. I hope you have great family and friends that can be there to help and support you.]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:23:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272163&title=devastated#1272163 <![CDATA[Devastated : I&#039;m sorry ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272140&title=devastated#1272140 Author: busymum
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 9:02pm

I'm sorry]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:02:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272140&title=devastated#1272140 <![CDATA[Devastated : Oh no, no, no!! I&#039;m so very...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272130&title=devastated#1272130 Author: AzzaNZ
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:55pm

Oh no, no, no!! I'm so very sorry

(((HUGS)))

Will be thinking of you tomorrow

]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 20:55:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272130&title=devastated#1272130 <![CDATA[Devastated : I&#039;m so sorry for your loss...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272129&title=devastated#1272129 Author: Bobchannz
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:55pm

I'm so sorry for your loss]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 20:55:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272129&title=devastated#1272129 <![CDATA[Devastated : Didn&#039;t want to read and run,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272127&title=devastated#1272127 Author: Lexidore
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:53pm

Didn't want to read and run, Hugs hun, one m/c is hard enough let alone more, big hugs hun ]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 20:53:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272127&title=devastated#1272127 <![CDATA[Devastated : They say lightening doesn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272125&title=devastated#1272125 Author: Princess_Bubs
Subject: 38106
Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:49pm

They say lightening doesn't strike twice, but I have just lost my second baby. I am sad, angry, frustrated, and just lost.

I saw a perfect and strong heartbeat at 7.2 weeks and today I saw a 9.1 week baby with a little head, a little nose, and little ears but no heartbeat.

It's just not fair and I can't believe my body has failed me again.

I'm booked in for a D and C tomorrow which terrifies me but at least it's over physically quickly.

I'm so sorry for everyone in here, it's so awful that anyone has to go through this once, let alone multiple times ]]> Mon, 21 Feb 2011 20:49:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=38106&PID=1272125&title=devastated#1272125