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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Thankyou Pikelets  Hope your appointment...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21305">Luckymama23</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 March 2012 at 8:40pm<br /><br />Thankyou Pikelets <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"><br />Hope your appointment goes well with them.. (most of!) the staff there are lovely!<br />Yup I agree.. on one hand if something was wrong at least there would be a reason.. and something to fix!<br />But then on the other hand I guess its good nothings wrong?? Grrr, def understand your rant! looks like your DS is a similar age to mine too!]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : I hope your appointment goes well...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18208">pikelets</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 March 2012 at 6:53pm<br /><br />I hope your appointment goes well at the end of the month.  Will be thinking of you.<br /><br />I have my first appointment (non-preg scan) at the beginning of April with RPL. <br /><br />We had unexplained infertility with DS and know how fustrating it can be when you want answers.  I am mixed this time whether I want unexplained or not! Is it better that something is wrong or nothing wrong??!  Grrr! Life can be cruel sometimes!! (sorry - rant over).<br /><br />Anyway, I really wanted to say all the best to you <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : I&amp;#039;m so sorry      You might...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17887">catie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 March 2012 at 1:32pm<br /><br />I'm so sorry <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />You might find this website helpful: http://www.miscarriagesupport.org.nz/index.html<br /><br />good luck for your follow-up appt.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Thank you for your kind words...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21305">Luckymama23</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 March 2012 at 7:27pm<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words ladies<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <br />Yup for the last two miscarriages we have been under the care of the RPL clinic in Auckland, but all they have come up with is unexplained secondary infertility, which is so frustrating.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br />Have a follow up appointment with them at the end of the month, so really hoping they can think of soemthing else to try...]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : :( I am so sorry to hear that...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=30637">Mintyfresh</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 03 March 2012 at 2:29pm<br /><br />:( I am so sorry to hear that - I haven't posted on ohbaby for over a month so didn't know you were utd. <br /><br />You've had four losses - have you been referred to a specialist?]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : So sorry to hear about your losses,...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19639">Roses are Red</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 February 2012 at 10:57pm<br /><br />So sorry to hear about your losses, have you been tested to find out why you are miscarrying?<br /><br />Hope you get that sticky bean soon <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated :  Im so sorry to hear that. It...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18208">pikelets</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 February 2012 at 11:17am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br />Im so sorry to hear that. It really isn't fair!<br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <br />]]>
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   <pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 11:17:46 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19303">Orca1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 February 2012 at 1:39pm<br /><br />Its very cruel and unfair, so sorry for your loss.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : to you both Kazza and luckymama....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=29544">tigger,roo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 February 2012 at 11:22am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> to you both Kazza and luckymama.  Thoughts are with u and your family.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Oh luckymama I&amp;#039;m so very...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=37194">Pepi-bebe</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 February 2012 at 7:46am<br /><br />Oh luckymama I'm so very sorry I hear your news. It's so cruel when it's completely inexplicable like that. <br /><br />My thoughts are with you.]]>
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   <pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 07:46:52 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Kazza, I am sorry sorry hun, really...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25545">monkeys</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 February 2012 at 9:12pm<br /><br />Kazza, I am sorry sorry hun, really don't know what to say but am thinking of you hun, and we are here if you need usxxxx]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Cant really believe it.. but here...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21305">Luckymama23</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 February 2012 at 3:07pm<br /><br />Cant really believe it.. but here we go again...<br />Scan today showed perfect 8 1/2 week bub but no heartbeat<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br />Not really surprised, as the other 4 m/c's have all been between 8-9 weeks, but still completely gutted<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br />Also really angry, its just so unfair <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Aaaw hun,  sorry to hear about...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18208">pikelets</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 20 September 2011 at 6:27pm<br /><br />Aaaw hun,  sorry to hear about your loss <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Hi Kazza  Just wanted to tell...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17887">catie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 29 August 2011 at 1:29pm<br /><br />Hi Kazza<br /><br />Just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry for your loss and send you a big hug <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Oh Kazza, I am so sorry that you...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23469">Pook72</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 August 2011 at 9:40pm<br /><br />Oh Kazza, I am so sorry that you have  gone through another  loss.  Not fair x]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : I am so sorry Kazza, look after...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=22333">didi99</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 August 2011 at 9:19am<br /><br />I am so sorry Kazza, look after yourself and know we are all here for you if you need us.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : I am really sorry for your loss....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19303">Orca1</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 August 2011 at 8:11pm<br /><br />I am really sorry for your loss.  I know every m/c is devastating and can totally relate to how you are feeling.  Take care of yourself.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : I&amp;#039;m so sorry Kazza, life...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24300">Princess_Bubs</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 August 2011 at 5:34pm<br /><br />I'm so sorry Kazza, life can be so cruel some times.<br /><br />Thinking of you and hoping to hear some good news from you in the not too distant future xxxx]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Oh no    I am so sorry Kazza! ]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19794">AzzaNZ</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 August 2011 at 4:36pm<br /><br />Oh no <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />I am so sorry Kazza!]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Devastated : Back here again for the fourth...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21305">Luckymama23</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 40101<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 04 August 2011 at 4:28pm<br /><br />Back here again for the fourth time... completely devastated, dont know what to do next...<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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