https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 20:07:40 +0000 Sat, 01 Sep 2012 21:13:25 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.04 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=42488 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811997&title=so-over-it#5811997 Author: Luckymama23
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Posted: 01 September 2012 at 9:13pm

Huge hugs to you Gapling & Blondes away ]]> Sat, 01 Sep 2012 21:13:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811997&title=so-over-it#5811997 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811968&title=so-over-it#5811968 Author: Blondes_Away
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Posted: 01 September 2012 at 4:15pm

Thinking of you Gapling, what an ordeal. Look after yourself.

I too was due in March 2013 but am waiting on my miscarriage to start, no heartbeat detected at last week's scan.]]> Sat, 01 Sep 2012 16:15:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811968&title=so-over-it#5811968 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811864&title=so-over-it#5811864 Author: Gapling
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Posted: 31 August 2012 at 2:00pm

Had misoprostol yesterday at 2pm. Just before 7 the bleeding started. May sound odd but I felt relieved that there was an end in sight. That I can start to move on knowing that I'm finally MCing. On Wednesday night I was away for work. I ran a bath in my hotel room and said goodbye to our bub and told it it was time to leave me, that it can't hold onto me anymore, that it needs to embrace the misop. Saying goodbye like that has me in a better place, although I did cry in the movie theatre toilets when I saw the first blood.
I'm now looking forward to spending a good number of months getting my body back into shape to be ready for when we do a frozen transfer. I think we are going to wait until well into next year before a FET as it's so emotionally taxing going through MC's.]]> Fri, 31 Aug 2012 14:00:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5811864&title=so-over-it#5811864 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810986&title=so-over-it#5810986 Author: pikelets
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Posted: 24 August 2012 at 6:57pm

I'm soo sorry to hear you are going through this

My 1st and 2nd were natural mc but the last one wouldn't move so I opted for a d&c. I didn't want to drag it out any longer and it was not long before xmas. Natural was easier on my body I felt but was glad to have the d&c last time.

I think a naturopath may be a good idea to see.

Big hugs to you hun ]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2012 18:57:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810986&title=so-over-it#5810986 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810985&title=so-over-it#5810985 Author: tan73
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Posted: 24 August 2012 at 6:48pm

Oh Gapling, I have been thinking of you heaps. I too waited to go naturally but decided on the Misoprostol and I am so glad I did it. I can now have closure and start to look forward. I delivered the wee embryo first and then later came the sac and placenta. It was not plain sailing and was not nice, but out of the three options, it was the best way to preserve my uterus, my sanity and help the grieving process - got to see the embryo and say goodbye. I am always here if you want to PM me and find out more or just need someone to talk to. I have endo too. It sucks, but I find it better talking with other mummy's like us. Take Care and don't forget to PM me if you want.
Tania xx]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2012 18:48:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810985&title=so-over-it#5810985 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810933&title=so-over-it#5810933 Author: Kellz
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Posted: 24 August 2012 at 10:49am

Aww you poor thing. So sorry you are going through this again. Have you thought about seeing a naturopath or accupuncturist? There are things they can do to aid your body in passing baby. I hope the physical side is over for you soon. ]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2012 10:49:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810933&title=so-over-it#5810933 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810927&title=so-over-it#5810927 Author: Gapling
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Posted: 24 August 2012 at 10:03am

I just want my body to realize there is no baby anymore and it needs to miscarry.
We've known since the second BT (4w3d) that things could go wrong. A week ago today at (7w3d) it was confirmed I was to MC. Now a week on and there is still no sign of it starting. It's starting to do my head in! I would prefer a natural MC, but I can't wait forever. My specialist has earmarked Friday next week to have misoprostol if it hasn't happened, so we do have a back up plan. I really don't want to have a D&C, and my specialist isn't keen on it either.
Is it seriously too much to ask for my body to release this pregnancy and then finally hold on the the next one when we put it back? So sick of going through all this and not getting a baby.]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2012 10:03:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=42488&PID=5810927&title=so-over-it#5810927